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You have two options, the one you pick really depends on how much you think it's worth it to pursue her: 1. Walk away, tell her you are tired of the BS, you don't want to fight, and you have been nothing but faithful and the constant bringing up of the ex who isn't in your mind anymore is getting on your nerves. Tell her to either move past it or move on from your relationship. 2. Recognize that this person is insecure (don't EVER bring it up to them that you think this) and do your best to just continue to be understanding, as well as doing things that inspire trust. I'm not sure how long you've been together, but sometimes these things heal over time, sometimes they get worse. It really depends on your connection with this person and how open you can be. Finding out what in particular is bothering her (do you have a female friend you text a lot?) and addressing the issue can sometimes help. Tell her the ex is an ex for a reason, and you are with her now. Sadly this is one of the biggest things that ends relationships from my experience. With social media and dating sites, it's easier to cheat more than ever, and many people have been cheated on. This results in people already not trusting others before they even get into a relationship. Combine this with a significant other being friends with someone who is better looking, wealthier, etc, and there is even more pressure. It comes down to you either trust someone or you don't, and this seems like a conversation that needs to be had.
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Sounds bi-polar if you ask me.
Been there done that. I got out of that relationship. One minute everything is fine, the other minute she's pissed for no reason. (In her mind, it's a legit reason though, which is the problem) But being with one of those will teach you what to look out for, so you never have to deal with it again. |
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^regardless of time spent doing something, a bad decision is a bad decision. Nothing wrong with making bad decisions, it's what comes after that determines your character. I'm not saying run, but sometimes it's the best viable option.
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I have had police show up in a couple occasions during that situation.
But I was younger and the act was going on in the car. When it's about to go down () ....you always think you've found a good spot to park without getting caught. At least that's what you convince her!
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