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      07-18-2026, 12:58 AM   #23
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I got rid of the jeep awhile ago, have a Bronco now


Yeah, I am torn....the fantasy of the side by side might not be the reality.

Not yet retired, so really don't know how many days I'd actually get per year to use it...but dammit I want one and would probably enjoy the shit out of it.

Other option, would be sell the R8, get the RZR or the Maverick R and a $30-40K sports car with a manual to still enjoy the sports car instead of the Raptor since I already have the Bronco which can tow 3500 lbs
Get a Wrangler Rubicon - which can tow 5,000 lbs. Enough to pull a trailer with the SXS to many adventures, and tow a small camper for other adventures.

If you need more capability, buy a Defender - they can tow 8,000 lbs+.

These are all vehicles that can take you to adventures with the whole family, not collect dust in a garage. Sports car appreciation is a mirage. Invested money will always return a lot more.

Cars, guns and women are meant to be enjoyed, not collect
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      07-18-2026, 05:16 AM   #24
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      07-18-2026, 05:19 AM   #25
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Dump the sand dune buggy idea and swap the R8 for a Gallardo cab, guarantee you'll be much happier.
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      07-18-2026, 08:12 AM   #26
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Get a Wrangler Rubicon - which can tow 5,000 lbs. Enough to pull a trailer with the SXS to many adventures, and tow a small camper for other adventures.

If you need more capability, buy a Defender - they can tow 8,000 lbs+.

These are all vehicles that can take you to adventures with the whole family, not collect dust in a garage. Sports car appreciation is a mirage. Invested money will always return a lot more.

Cars, guns and women are meant to be enjoyed, not collect
The Bronco is way underrated in tow capacity. He can tow an RZR on trailer with it easily.
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      07-18-2026, 08:15 AM   #27
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that seems to be the issue with my R8 these days.....just not driving it much anymore, it is a garage queen....think I'd have much more fun ripping up trails and the dunes in a side by side.

highly likely a bad financial decision, but yolo
I agree this is a bad emotional and financial decision.

You've fallen out of love with the R8 because you're not driving it. Having multiple drivers cars takes an intentional rotation. For example I switch mine out weekly or if one needs service.

So either drive it or swap it for something like this Ferrari 360 Roadster
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      07-18-2026, 01:06 PM   #28
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I agree this is a bad emotional and financial decision.

You've fallen out of love with the R8 because you're not driving it. Having multiple drivers cars takes an intentional rotation. For example I switch mine out weekly or if one needs service.

So either drive it or swap it for something like this Ferrari 360 Roadster
Put the wife on Feet finder. In a few weeks , buy the S X S and turbo the R-8. Your welcome
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      07-18-2026, 10:14 PM   #29
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Everyone here being way too polite. You're fucking crazy.

By all means sell the R8 but you better not buy another toy car because you love that car, so ok not driving = sell, fine, but you can't replace it with something else.

Rent the buggies FFS, even if renting costs you $5K year, you're still miles in front.

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Put the wife on Feet finder. In a few weeks , buy the S X S and turbo the R-8. Your welcome
I had NFI what this was, dead set seen everything. You're a sick man. Funny fucker though.
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I had NFI what this was, dead set seen everything. You're a sick man. Funny fucker though.
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      07-19-2026, 06:06 AM   #32
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Do you have any experience with offroad vehicles in general?

Just a general observation, the "roughness" of going off paved surfaces can be quite different. I am a on and off road motorcyclist and every time I drive any kind of four wheeled offroad vehicle with a seated position, I am reminded how much I don't like the experience. Having a 350 pound bike with 10" of suspension travel and being able to stand on the pegs for really rough stuff is what I prefer, 10" of suspension on a 2000lb vehicle in a seated position where the shock goes into my back is not my thing, even though it is obviously super popular in the larger society.

Just an idea to weigh out, maybe rent something first if you don't have any firsthand experience. 40mph on the rough desert road is a lot different than 40mph on a smooth highway.


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Lately, I've been obsessing about getting a side by side and as you probably know, they're not cheap....I'm looking at the Can Am Maverick R Max of the Polaris Pro R Ultimate...$40-50K range.

Unfortunately, the boss lady says I'd have to sell the other toy if I really want to do it....not exactly millionaires yet

So, I figure I could sell my pride and joy 2010 Audi R8 gated manual and get the SxS and a used gen2 Raptor for what the R8 would likely fetch.

Would I be crazy to do that, or just pull the trigger and do it?



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50k for a side by side....there's no way in hell. I'm assuming these things depreciate faster than German sports cars. Not everything's a financial decision....but damn there's just no way there's 50k of fun in a side by side even if you used it every weekend of your life.
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      07-19-2026, 12:58 PM   #34
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I agree this is a bad emotional and financial decision.

You've fallen out of love with the R8 because you're not driving it. Having multiple drivers cars takes an intentional rotation. For example I switch mine out weekly or if one needs service.

So either drive it or swap it for something like this Ferrari 360 Roadster
If I had fallen out of love with the R8, this would be a no brainer...but this is more a case of just obsessing about having a badass sand toy.

I'm starting to try to figure out how to have both without getting a divorce at the same time

I might just sell the sea doos and maybe just get one of the less expensive models like a Maverick X3 RS which are still pretty badass....that is another option
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      07-19-2026, 02:34 PM   #35
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50k for a side by side....there's no way in hell. I'm assuming these things depreciate faster than German sports cars. Not everything's a financial decision....but damn there's just no way there's 50k of fun in a side by side even if you used it every weekend of your life.
considering it is about 90% capable of a $400K trophy truck and more versital(sand, rock crawling,etc) they are not that crazy and they are 100% worth every penny to those who are lucky enough to enjoy them that often....it is definitely a lifestyle that people enjoy





btw, you can get a brand new capable sport sxs in the high $20K OTD range, the $50K range just gets you the biggest and baddest....which is unfortunately the one I really want. I just know me to well to know if I buy the lesser one I will soon be regretting it and selling it for one of the top models

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      07-19-2026, 03:55 PM   #36
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Your R8 is an appreciating asset. The RZR is a nuclear depreciation bomb. Make sure your wife understands that while you go look for other toys.

Be sure to explain the carrying costs etc and give her a full financial breakdown. You can even use Claude or something similar to prepare her a nice report. I find that people have a much harder time arguing with numbers.
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      07-19-2026, 06:55 PM   #37
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Your R8 is an appreciating asset. The RZR is a nuclear depreciation bomb. Make sure your wife understands that while you go look for other toys.

Be sure to explain the carrying costs etc and give her a full financial breakdown. You can even use Claude or something similar to prepare her a nice report. I find that people have a much harder time arguing with numbers.
for sure, as I noted in my original post...not the greatest financial decision

yes the R8 is definitely going to hold its value and most likely continue to climb , but the used market is pretty strong on certain side by sides due to all the dealer fees that come with the new ones...sometimes it comes down to smiles per mile

I live about 2.5 hour drive from the Mecca of the side by side world(Glamis)
also plenty of other great spots for these things withing a 2-6 hour drive, so you can see why I have been seriously considering this move.

still trying to figure out a way to have both, but it would be much easier with a pocket full of cash from selling the R8

Thinking of throwing it on BaT and see what happens though
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      07-20-2026, 05:40 AM   #38
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They're just not really making manuals anymore. I don't know if automatic "exotics" will appreciate, but the manuals sure as hell will.
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Never in a million years would I ditch Iron Man’s car for an ATV.
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WHat's the life situation? Obviously married but any kids and if so, how old?
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They're just not really making manuals anymore. I don't know if automatic "exotics" will appreciate, but the manuals sure as hell will.
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Never in a million years would I ditch Iron Man’s car for an ATV.
I know, it sounds insane, but it would most likely be for more than just the sand toy....a used Gen2 Raptor also included in the deal

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WHat's the life situation? Obviously married but any kids and if so, how old?
they are now 21 and 24....One has just graduated from UCI grad school and has moved to LA, the younger one, my baby girl, still lives at home.

I'm about to be 55 and don't want to wait until I'm too old to enjoy the great outdoors (while they are still considered public lands)


my best bet, just sell the sea doo's and get like a $25K X3 RS instead of the Raptor and the Maverick R
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Sounds like a huge hassle to have to trailer a side by side 2 to 6 hours for some fun. Plus, you'd need to buy a trailer and those aren't cheap at all. A used Raptor will CERTAINLY have it's own set of expensive issues as Ford, for the life of them, continue to struggle with making the Ecoboosts reliable (hello cam phasers and other crap that routinely fails on them). Then there's all the money of trailering a vehicle. You'll be getting 10mpg, if that.

Why not keep the R8 and buy a $10-15K Jeep or Nissan Frontier and set it up for decent offroad use? I didn't say Tacoma as resale on those is dumb and the Frontier is just as capable, reliable, and cheaper. Going this route would mean you don't have to worry about getting a trailer or adding two vehicles to the fleet that requires maintenance and repairs instead of just one? If you fall in love with offroading, then sell the R8 and Jeep/whatever and then get a side by side, ideally a slightly used one for significantly less money than new.
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Sounds like a huge hassle to have to trailer a side by side 2 to 6 hours for some fun. Plus, you'd need to buy a trailer and those aren't cheap at all. A used Raptor will CERTAINLY have it's own set of expensive issues as Ford, for the life of them, continue to struggle with making the Ecoboosts reliable (hello cam phasers and other crap that routinely fails on them). Then there's all the money of trailering a vehicle. You'll be getting 10mpg, if that.

Why not keep the R8 and buy a $10-15K Jeep or Nissan Frontier and set it up for decent offroad use? I didn't say Tacoma as resale on those is dumb and the Frontier is just as capable, reliable, and cheaper. Going this route would mean you don't have to worry about getting a trailer or adding two vehicles to the fleet that requires maintenance and repairs instead of just one? If you fall in love with offroading, then sell the R8 and Jeep/whatever and then get a side by side, ideally a slightly used one for significantly less money than new.
yeah, lots to consider....these wouldn't be just a one day trip so you know this will lead into a whole other journey down the rabbit hole with toy haaler, etc...

I'm slowly walking back off the ledge, but I want one of these badly....I already have a Bronco for most of my local trails and other fun off road stuff, but it is nowhere near the same experience of a rig like the Maverick R or Pro R ...they are basically a cross between a dirt bike and a sports car.
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Walk yourself off the ledge and take occasional trips and rent the SXS.
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