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long day, successful one too... ran into a friend from freshmen earlier today, havent seen her last year because she studied abroad.
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09-14-2018, 07:06 AM | #378 | |
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09-14-2018, 08:04 AM | #380 | |
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The little company I work for has gone so far to appease these sorts of people that we are now empowering and enabling them. it's ridiculous. One particularly troublesome young woman, who we have dubbed the "virtue signaler" is a freakin' lawsuit ready to happen. She's very attractive and knows it but she's also in a relationship with a woman, primarily socializes with gay men, and has serious issues with heterosexual men who she has called "repugnant" for their objectification of women on more than one occasion that I have personally overheard. Needless to say I steer clear of her. I don't look at her, I don't talk to her, unless she approaches me needing something. otherwise I keep my distance. Well apparently she complained to HR that she thought I was upset with her or didn't like her because I'm not friendly and open with her. WTF!? There's no winning with this one and there's a bazillion more of them just like her out there in offices across the country, just waiting to F you up. Anyway, I'm in a management position with my company and thus the stakes are high. HR knows all about this woman and just brushed off her concerns, though they thankfully alerted me. I told HR my concerns and that I refuse to be alone in my office or a conference room with her. Any time she sets up a meeting with me I forward the invite to her manager, who is a woman, and require her to join us. Gotta cover my backside. |
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09-14-2018, 08:21 AM | #381 | |
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09-14-2018, 08:33 AM | #382 | |
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I’m still dating mine. She has crazy episodes but never directs them towards me. She knows how that would end. Lots of self harm scars. Suicide threats and attempts. Downloaded an app to translate her words to her cat. Reckless bevahior with tattoos and shopping. Always skipping school. Zero relationship with her father. Unbelievable narcissistic episodes. It’s a real treat to watch sometimes. Let’s me do absolutely ridiculous things to her in bed and she’s very hot which is why I’m in. Very loyal as well, which is unusual for BPD. |
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09-14-2018, 08:46 AM | #383 | ||
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I have a tendency to keep my head down at work and not associate with anyone in particular as not to be viewed by other employees as being associated with a clique. This will cause serious issues in what I do. Where I work is so clique-y it's a lot like a prison yard. If I joke around with someone and then work on a project in a department where employees don't like the person I was seen joking with, the other employees will do everything in their power to wreck what I'm working on. This goes with management here as well, they're actually worse than the production employees. They will intentionally not approve projects that need completed for production/financial/compliance/environmental reasons just because they are upset with you about completely unrelated issues. Craziness. "Oh you took the stand of xyz on this topic? Well I can't approve project abc because of this." Last edited by King Rudi; 09-14-2018 at 09:43 AM.. |
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btw.....downloaded and app to communicate with her cat????? I bet the sex is amazing! ![]() |
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For mine, Granted she is 18. There’s an immaturity factor too. Another few classic signs: Loves to dye her hair or cut her hair differently Very up and down relationship with friends and mom Told me she loves me the third day I knew her Watches porn a lot Hates her own race (chinese) in terms of looks |
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I don't care how hot or good the sex is, I would not be in a relationship with that level of crazy. Fuck buddy or something, sure.
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Mine would invent problems for attention. Some were just way out there! Would call me at all hours of the night when we were dating and would either leave me voicemails singing me love songs (she couldn't sing for shit) or would moan (acting like she was having sex) to get under my skin. Serious substance abuse problems. There was always some form of intoxicant, it went from alcohol to pot to hard drugs back to alcohol back to pot, repeat. Nothing was done in moderation. She would smoke an entire joint and then light another. Don't get me wrong, I used to smoke weed but smoking after you just got high isn't going to get you any higher. Quote:
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I have enough stress and other shit to deal with and don't need the burden of someone else's mental insanity. There are plenty of very attractive women out there who are not mental basket cases. Hint: You likely won't find them on dating sites or in bars, which are basically the same women but when they aren't on their computers/phones.
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my mom's sister (that makes her my aunt i think?) was diagnosed with BPD and schizophrenia so i know what can happen when they're having an episode, if you guys can put up with that that is some patience i do not have but aspire to have...
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I've had several friends go through the same thing. It all too easy to say "I'll never do this", "This will never happen to me" or "I wouldn't put up with that." I said the same thing. You never know how you will act or react until you are in that situation yourself. |
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not an equal comparison, as (hopefully) yer not having sex with your moms sister...
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I don't care how good the getting is, no fucking way i put up with that shit. I can't do crazy or drugged or whatever, just zero patience for these people.
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