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It really doesn't matter much what us guys think about the matter, so let's deal with only what the female posters have said. Now, we all know Lups is basically a male, so she doesn't count even though she hasn't replied, and doing the opposite of whatever she recommends is actually usually a pretty good course of action to take in life. Therefore, we have basically 100% of the females that normally post on here being very strongly in the camp of "You shouldn't have done that". Which suggests they would have been offended had they been in your gf's shoes. We have, as an opposing viewpoint, your gf, who appears to be happy with what you've done, or at the very least, not upset at all with you. Which is completely contradictory to our female contingent's feelings on the matter. Now, it seems to me either one of two things is happening here: 1. Despite her words to the contrary, she is a little miffed at you, and you will soon find this out. The next argument should bring this to light if it is going to come up. 2. Because she was originally a little insecure about the relationship and how you feel about her, she takes your actions as positive, as it reinforces you care. Which would then mean that you were right to intervene. Which also means that depending on the woman, you could be right to intervene or you could be wrong. Which all just boils down to women being fickle creatures and you don't have a hope of understanding them, so love them anyway and do what you were going to do because you have a 50% shot at getting it right anyways. And at least you'll be temporarily happy with yourself while you are doing what you wanted to do. ![]() Time is a great teacher. |
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04-26-2019, 03:20 PM | #3676 | |
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The thing that does actually bother me about it is that I have gone from a take it or leave it stance with her to sending some guy a message basically planting my flag in her ass. WTF is wrong with me??? It's quite obvious that I care about her and enjoy our time together. Yes it is true that she is a good woman and I am quite fortunate to have her in my life but how the hell did I get here with all these damn feelings emotions and whatnot? As long as she isn't upset about it...I mean genuinely not upset; not the kind of upset where she states that she isn't but then brings it up months later, then I'm ok with it. Deep down I feel like I should have just overlooked it and said or done nothing. Either way, lesson learned....no more messages to random guys who hit on my girl online.....next time, I drive to their house and beat them senseless like a real man. ![]() I kid, I kid.... |
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04-26-2019, 03:28 PM | #3677 |
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![]() Nah, I'm not brilliant, I just look at the world in a bemused sort of way, while trying to sidestep idiots who will make my life difficult and help others when I can. Emotions are natural. Makes us human. Don't worry about your feelings, that's a good thing. You can put up a wall (I have before) and yeah, you won't get nearly as hurt, but you aren't going to enjoy life as much either, because it will always feel....I don't know - clinical I guess. Sanitized maybe...about the only words I can use to describe it. Be selective, but be genuine is all I can say. I hope people see that about me - I've always tried to be very genuine and warm. So when you care about someone - great! Make sure they know it. Just be selective about who you let in. |
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My current wife survived ovarian cancer before we met, so she knew she would never be able to have kids. It ended up working pretty well as when we got together, my daughter was 10 I think and I had full custody. But it gave her a chance to have that motherly experience since the real mom wasn't in the picture. Even now that my daughter is grown, she still comes to my wife before her own mom who was back in the picture a few years back. I'm happy you found out now rather than later. About 3 months was the longest I went before finding out one I was seeing was the same way. Pissed me off more than anything as I saw it as 3 months wasted!
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![]() On the weekend note: Spent all day Saturday vinyl wrapping the grille and window trim on the Lexus. Looks less of a soccer mom's ride and mean as hell now. LED's for interior and exterior this weekend. Gonna wait after the concert next week to slap the gloss vinyl on the roof, then black badges. The poor girlfriend has to endure yet another modding phase; I'm beyond grateful she is understanding. |
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Do we have a "What did you do to your car" non-BMW edition thread around here? I kinda feel like a traitor for being here now that the BMW is gone, but this place is WAY cooler than Club Lexus forums.
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04-29-2019, 09:18 AM | #3688 | |
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I haven't owned a BMW since 2012 and I'm still around. Though I admit the newest M5 is appealing powerfully to me. I just don't think I can afford even a used example in 4 years. I should edit that to say "justifiably afford". |
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I would like to once again remind everyone on these forums to never stick it in crazy!
the girl that accused a professor of misconduct has been arrested for putting a knife to her ex's throat to delete stuff of his phone/computer, now her and her roommate are set at $25k bail lol did i mention they were supposed to be walking with cap and gown in literally 3 days? lmao |
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