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i honestly was not thinking of sending anything - as much as you guys hate ghosting im not texting anyone "so uh hey im not about that stuff glhf"

i did my week's homework, updated my linkedin & resume for the career fair tomorrow and i'm feeling great, don't need any distractions on my journey to success. a bmw m4 doesn't come when you are being violated

let's consider this to be the end of this saga, im not taking any chances with this chick.
Good for you! Stay focused on what's important. School, graduating, your upcoming career, an M4, etc.

Plenty of hot college chicks out there to hook up with that are only mildly crazy. This one sounded full on head in the freezer crazy.
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Oh wait, there's a BF involved too? I missed that. Oh man this just got so much better.

Not only do you end up with a dump on your chest, I've got $10 that says when she puts the blindfold on you and proceeds to give you the best BJ of your life...well...let's just say that's where the BF comes into this little scene.
Yea, now this slut also has a bf? Be the better man & roll out. Unless you like to be shit on. Literally & figuratively...
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Pic of turn down or it already DID happen

I hope when you get to be old and grey that you don't regret not taking a chance
i honestly was not thinking of sending anything - as much as you guys hate ghosting im not texting anyone "so uh hey im not about that stuff glhf"

i did my week's homework, updated my linkedin & resume for the career fair tomorrow and i'm feeling great, don't need any distractions on my journey to success. a bmw m4 doesn't come when you are being violated

let's consider this to be the end of this saga, im not taking any chances with this chick.
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i honestly was not thinking of sending anything - as much as you guys hate ghosting im not texting anyone "so uh hey im not about that stuff glhf"

i did my week's homework, updated my linkedin & resume for the career fair tomorrow and i'm feeling great, don't need any distractions on my journey to success. a bmw m4 doesn't come when you are being violated

let's consider this to be the end of this saga, im not taking any chances with this chick.
Boooooooooooo, make a grand exit!

Also, post pics of this skank!
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Good for you! Stay focused on what's important. School, graduating, your upcoming career, an M4, etc.

Plenty of hot college chicks out there to hook up with that are only mildly crazy. This one sounded full on head in the freezer crazy.
+1

So not worth it. Be the better man, don't stoop to the level of these idiots.
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Good for you! Stay focused on what's important. School, graduating, your upcoming career, an M4, etc.

Plenty of hot college chicks out there to hook up with that are only mildly crazy. This one sounded full on head in the freezer crazy.
+1

So not worth it. Be the better man, don't stoop to the level of these idiots.
How's he being the "better man" by cowardly hiding in a hole (ghosting)?

I need to learn what these millennials call being a "bigger person" these days, I'm getting old...
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How's he being the "better man" by cowardly hiding in a hole (ghosting)?

I need to learn what these millennials call being a "bigger person" these days, I'm getting old...
I think he's saying i'd be the better man if I wasn't the one she cheats on her bf with.

If you have any input to what I should text please let me know, because I really do not. I also don't see any reason to provide a reason why she'll never hear from me again
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How's he being the "better man" by cowardly hiding in a hole (ghosting)?

I need to learn what these millennials call being a "bigger person" these days, I'm getting old...
I think he's saying i'd be the better man if I wasn't the one she cheats on her bf with.

If you have any input to what I should text please let me know, because I really do not. I also don't see any reason to provide a reason why she'll never hear from me again
Well man it's hard not to sound condescending, but if you've been chatting with someone, going out on dates numerous times, getting intimate, simply disappearing is not ok in my books. Why leave her wondering? It seems she was enjoying conversing with you.

If you no longer wish to date her, just tell her. It doesn't take long and certainly doesn't disrupt your studies...

Just tell her how you feel? Was it because she has a boyfriend? You already have the perfect reason and she'll understand.

I just think that the bigger people let their voice be heard and stand up for what they think, and the little ones hide in a hole until whatever they're scared of is gone... ghosting is the latter.

It's a different story when you "match" someone online and say hi, they say hi back, you ask them a question and you never hear back. You guys already have something going on.

I could go on in how I even feel like texting wouldn't be enough for you to convey the message that you're "breaking up", and that you should do it in person... but I'm not even going to go that far as I know that is a lost cause.

Cheers and good luck with your M4....
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Itís not bi if you Eiffel Tower the bitch.
It is if the base/middle is another dude and that's what they wanted. No thanks. Not my cup of tea.
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How's he being the "better man" by cowardly hiding in a hole (ghosting)?

I need to learn what these millennials call being a "bigger person" these days, I'm getting old...
I wasn't implying he ghost. Simply saying "sorry this isn't for me, but good luck" is enough.
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Well man it's hard not to sound condescending, but if you've been chatting with someone, going out on dates numerous times, getting intimate, simply disappearing is not ok in my books. Why leave her wondering? It seems she was enjoying conversing with you.

If you no longer wish to date her, just tell her. It doesn't take long and certainly doesn't disrupt your studies...

Just tell her how you feel? Was it because she has a boyfriend? You already have the perfect reason and she'll understand.

I just think that the bigger people let their voice be heard and stand up for what they think, and the little ones hide in a hole until whatever they're scared of is gone... ghosting is the latter.

It's a different story when you "match" someone online and say hi, they say hi back, you ask them a question and you never hear back. You guys already have something going on.

I could go on in how I even feel like texting wouldn't be enough for you to convey the message that you're "breaking up", and that you should do it in person... but I'm not even going to go that far as I know that is a lost cause.

Cheers and good luck with your M4....
It's still not ok when people do it online either, though. It's even easier for them to simply text back "Hey, I changed my mind. I wish you good luck out there!" That's better than being a little coward & overall terrible person. You don't get to use the internet or an app as an excuse to be shitty to your fellow human beings when they didn't do anything to you.
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I think he's saying i'd be the better man if I wasn't the one she cheats on her bf with.

If you have any input to what I should text please let me know, because I really do not. I also don't see any reason to provide a reason why she'll never hear from me again
Fairly certain pictures were promised?
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this reminds me of The Game by neil strauss. lets keep it going! PUA dwell here!
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If you have any input to what I should text please let me know, because I really do not. I also don't see any reason to provide a reason why she'll never hear from me again
How about this: "Sex that requires bandages afterwards isnt really my thing."
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Had this religious fruitcake (see attached screenshots) waste my time last night. I'm not religious at all, but if you want to be that's cool.

If religion is that important in your relationships, don't you think you should mention that in the very beginning?!

Then I asked why her mate has to share the same religious views as I was curious. Of course, she flips out & then leaves the conversation instead of answering. She should try Christianmingle.com instead of this app.
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Had this religious fruitcake (see attached screenshots) waste my time last night. I'm not religious at all, but if you want to be that's cool.

If religion is that important in your relationships, don't you think you should mention that in the very beginning?!

Then I asked why her mate has to share the same religious views as I was curious. Of course, she flips out & then leaves the conversation instead of answering. She should try Christianmingle.com instead of this app.
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Her: "Faith is pretty important to me and its important my partner shares those views"

You: "Wow, I have to admit I didn't see this coming. Not this early on in our relationship. I had not given it much thought until now but I think I could get down with that, seeing as Faith is so important to you and hey, I'm all about sharing Faith. I mean, especially if Faith is super hot. When can I meet her?"
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Had this religious fruitcake (see attached screenshots) waste my time last night. I'm not religious at all, but if you want to be that's cool.

If religion is that important in your relationships, don't you think you should mention that in the very beginning?!

Then I asked why her mate has to share the same religious views as I was curious. Of course, she flips out & then leaves the conversation instead of answering. She should try Christianmingle.com instead of this app.
Dude....I know that you don't care but your entire delivery on communicating with these women is extremely apathetic and heartless. I get your personality, know that this is who you are as a person, applaud you for staying true to yourself but man, your rough on these women.

How I made things work for me was that even if I didn't like them, I would give them no reason to say anything negative about me, show them a good time, sex them up in a way that most had never experienced and then let them know that I just wasn't in a place mentally for a relationship at the time. They would usually thank me, let me know that they appreciated my honesty and then we would stay in touch. I did this for a few years and they would all come back for more, knowing I was unavailable emotionally but they enjoyed the sex. I made them feel comfortable; that was the most important thing. Did I have to listen to their bullshit, of course but only for a few minutes. I had a never ending stream of women who wanted me for only sex. I still have them contact me occasionally. Had one call me Saturday just wanting sex, I of course told her I had a girlfriend and that I wouldn't; which only made her want it more. She kept asking if I was sure. This brings me to another story that I'll share in another post, but she was my therapist. Yeah.....bucket list check mark. Long story not so short, attract several ladies, if they aren't right let them know but keep it friendly and deliver some mind blowing sex. Each of them will continue to come back and understand that you don't want a relationship. This gives you different experiences, different personalities to learn and different perspectives on different things in life. You also get to have lots of sex with no commitment with different women and aren't really lying or playing them. Honesty and being open really does pay off.

As for the religious women, some of the best sex I've had with ladies from dating sites were those who claimed to be super-religious, especially Christians. The strangest thing was that ALL, not some...ALL, wanted anal and it was always on the first date. We would start having sex and within minutes they would either put in there themselves or start begging for it. This has always baffled me. In now way am I in any danger of being contacted by anyone in the porn industry anytime soon, but I'm far from small. Most of them display how uncomfortable it is after. If it was small I guess I could see it but I just don't understand the mentality of this. Maybe it was to hook men into wanting to stay with them; but even so why would you do something like that on the first date, not enjoy it and make the man think he can have this all the time if he stays.....and loves Jesus. Even more strange was that after sex, everything was chill for a few hours or a few days and then suddenly everything was about their religion. I'm pretty much anti-religion all the way around. I'm not saying that religion doesn't do good for some people, I'm just not the guy that needs it. I personally would just have a difficult time going to church less than 12 hours after I spent the night intoxicating and sexually violating Ms. Prim and Proper.

I've also heard from some of my friends that christianmingle is nothing but freaky ass women that throw it around like candy at a Christmas parade.
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Her: "Faith is pretty important to me and its important my partner shares those views"

You: "Wow, I have to admit I didn't see this coming. Not this early on in our relationship. I had not given it much thought until now but I think I could get down with that, seeing as Faith is so important to you and hey, I'm all about sharing Faith. I mean, especially if Faith is super hot. When can I meet her?"
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Dude....I know that you don't care but your entire delivery on communicating with these women is extremely apathetic and heartless. I get your personality, know that this is who you are as a person, applaud you for staying true to yourself but man, your rough on these women.

How I made things work for me was that even if I didn't like them, I would give them no reason to say anything negative about me, show them a good time, sex them up in a way that most had never experienced and then let them know that I just wasn't in a place mentally for a relationship at the time. They would usually thank me, let me know that they appreciated my honesty and then we would stay in touch. I did this for a few years and they would all come back for more, knowing I was unavailable emotionally but they enjoyed the sex. I made them feel comfortable; that was the most important thing. Did I have to listen to their bullshit, of course but only for a few minutes. I had a never ending stream of women who wanted me for only sex. I still have them contact me occasionally. Had one call me Saturday just wanting sex, I of course told her I had a girlfriend and that I wouldn't; which only made her want it more. She kept asking if I was sure. This brings me to another story that I'll share in another post, but she was my therapist. Yeah.....bucket list check mark. Long story not so short, attract several ladies, if they aren't right let them know but keep it friendly and deliver some mind blowing sex. Each of them will continue to come back and understand that you don't want a relationship. This gives you different experiences, different personalities to learn and different perspectives on different things in life. You also get to have lots of sex with no commitment with different women and aren't really lying or playing them. Honesty and being open really does pay off.

As for the religious women, some of the best sex I've had with ladies from dating sites were those who claimed to be super-religious, especially Christians. The strangest thing was that ALL, not some...ALL, wanted anal and it was always on the first date. We would start having sex and within minutes they would either put in there themselves or start begging for it. This has always baffled me. In now way am I in any danger of being contacted by anyone in the porn industry anytime soon, but I'm far from small. Most of them display how uncomfortable it is after. If it was small I guess I could see it but I just don't understand the mentality of this. Maybe it was to hook men into wanting to stay with them; but even so why would you do something like that on the first date, not enjoy it and make the man think he can have this all the time if he stays.....and loves Jesus. Even more strange was that after sex, everything was chill for a few hours or a few days and then suddenly everything was about their religion. I'm pretty much anti-religion all the way around. I'm not saying that religion doesn't do good for some people, I'm just not the guy that needs it. I personally would just have a difficult time going to church less than 12 hours after I spent the night intoxicating and sexually violating Ms. Prim and Proper.

I've also heard from some of my friends that christianmingle is nothing but freaky ass women that throw it around like candy at a Christmas parade.
Meh, I asked her why she felt that way & she ran away. Not my problem. I'm not putting in work for women I have no interest in. I'd rather just watch my shows & beat off if that's the case. I'm good.
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Meh, I asked her why she felt that way & she ran away. Not my problem. I'm not putting in work for women I have no interest in. I'd rather just watch my shows & beat off if that's the case. I'm good.
I have to give to you, you get respect points from me for being true to yourself and not giving a shit one way or the other.
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I have to give to you, you get respect points from me for being true to yourself and not giving a shit one way or the other.
Everyone is different & we all have different wants/needs/desires/thresholds. None of us are going to click with every man/woman we talk to on these sites so may as well just put that effort into worthwhile avenues.

My sex addiction side is saying Hmm, maybe just start playing games like you're 27 again just to get laid.
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