BMW 1-Series Forum (F20) 135i - 1Addicts.com > BIMMERPOST Universal Forums > Off-Topic Discussions Board > Dating - Good/Bad Experiences
Post Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
      01-29-2020, 03:53 PM   #4731
cmyx6go
Colonel
cmyx6go's Avatar
16679
Rep
2,083
Posts

Drives: 2022 X6///M Comp
Join Date: Aug 2015
Location: NYC

iTrader: (2)

Garage List
2019 X6 ///M  [10.00]
Quote:
Originally Posted by MKSixer View Post
Sitting in the ER with mom. Could use a laugh. Thanks.
Appreciate 5
MKSixer34116.00
Rmtt8201.00
King Rudi13070.50
      01-29-2020, 04:10 PM   #4732
Turkish Pickle
Banned
United_States
3056
Rep
381
Posts

Drives: '21 330i xDrive
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Chicago, IL

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rmtt View Post
I feel for you guys these days. Back when I was single, I got texts non-stop. I could have just left a date, and they would be texting me 45 minutes later. And I hated talking on the phone.

As I have mentioned before, I like a strong independent woman.....I could never do clingy.

Lol....I guess I lived in an area where most of the women were desperate. I had more problems trying to ditch them than I did finding them.

Now that I think about it, I was approached more often by the opposite sex......a lot more than me approaching them.

Like I said.....desperate women in my area!
moving to SC shortly


Quote:
Originally Posted by MKSixer View Post
I have 2 that want to come into town this week and 3 that want me to come to them. It's insane.
If you ever need an executive assistant to help you with this you have my contact info
Appreciate 2
MKSixer34116.00
Rmtt8201.00
      01-29-2020, 05:30 PM   #4733
Rmtt
Colonel
Rmtt's Avatar
United_States
8201
Rep
2,250
Posts

Drives: 2011 BMW 128i, 2008 LS3 C6
Join Date: Jan 2019
Location: South Carolina

iTrader: (3)

Quote:
Originally Posted by cmyx6go View Post
Sitting in the ER with mom. Could use a laugh. Thanks.
Hope everything is okay. I'm sick of hospitals right now.
__________________
Everybody has a gameplan....until they get punched in the mouth.
Appreciate 3
MKSixer34116.00
King Rudi13070.50
cmyx6go16679.00
      01-29-2020, 05:34 PM   #4734
Rmtt
Colonel
Rmtt's Avatar
United_States
8201
Rep
2,250
Posts

Drives: 2011 BMW 128i, 2008 LS3 C6
Join Date: Jan 2019
Location: South Carolina

iTrader: (3)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle View Post
moving to SC shortly



If you ever need an executive assistant to help you with this you have my contact info
Don't sell yourself short. You have plenty of time and plenty to offer.

So be picky and have the attitude that you deserve the best. You're a Good guy no matter what Now_Rudi says!!!
__________________
Everybody has a gameplan....until they get punched in the mouth.
Appreciate 4
MKSixer34116.00
UncleWede18347.00
King Rudi13070.50
      01-29-2020, 11:36 PM   #4735
pennsiveguy
Major
pennsiveguy's Avatar
United_States
3548
Rep
1,062
Posts

Drives: F15 xDrive50i M-sport
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Edina, MN

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Based on the market opportunity I'm seeing here, I've decided to start a hairy arm cam show, as a side hustle. I'll be doing dishes, detailing my humidifier, folding laundry. I'll post the URL when it goes live.

__________________
2017 F15 xDrive50i M Sport | Superformance GT40 Roush 511 IR FE
Appreciate 1
Joekerr7917.00
      01-29-2020, 11:58 PM   #4736
pennsiveguy
Major
pennsiveguy's Avatar
United_States
3548
Rep
1,062
Posts

Drives: F15 xDrive50i M-sport
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Edina, MN

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by MKSixer View Post
Either a suit with no tie or slacks and a sport coat, again, no tie. I arrive first to make certain I have the high ground. Also, and this is critical, VIDEO CHAT if you met them online.

Happy hour and if things click, dinner.
I always get there first and sit so I'm facing the door. Fewer distractions for them. It's an old sales trick.

Deal breaker: if she picks her phone up more than once or twice (unless the date goes longer than an hour or so, or she's showing me pix). I leave mine in my car; whatever's going on, I'll catch up when the date's over. If she'd rather be texting "IKR?" to her besty than having a conversation with me, I'll happily let her do so while I get up and leave. I've done that 3 times and it felt fantastic. If her life revolves around her phone, we're not a match. I own my phone; my phone doesn't own me.
__________________
2017 F15 xDrive50i M Sport | Superformance GT40 Roush 511 IR FE
Appreciate 3
MKSixer34116.00
      01-30-2020, 12:05 AM   #4737
UncleWede
Long Time Admirer, First Time Owner
UncleWede's Avatar
United_States
18347
Rep
9,414
Posts

Drives: G01 X3 M40i Dark Graphite
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Oxnard, CA

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by pennsiveguy View Post
Based on the market opportunity I'm seeing here, I've decided to start a hairy arm cam show, as a side hustle. I'll be doing dishes, detailing my humidifier, folding laundry. I'll post the URL when it goes live.

Group buy?

I'm sure MKSixer and 1MOREMOD are in with me

Can we request with goat arms too???
__________________
I have romped on her and I giggled like a drunk infant the entire time. - Sedan_Clan
Appreciate 3
MKSixer34116.00
      01-30-2020, 12:11 AM   #4738
pennsiveguy
Major
pennsiveguy's Avatar
United_States
3548
Rep
1,062
Posts

Drives: F15 xDrive50i M-sport
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Edina, MN

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by UncleWede View Post
Group buy?

I'm sure MKSixer and 1MOREMOD are in with me

Can we request with goat arms too???
Let's call it $100/month for the lot of you. I'll even throw in some furry plumber-butt a couple times a week, just to prove I'm not a greedy man.
__________________
2017 F15 xDrive50i M Sport | Superformance GT40 Roush 511 IR FE
Appreciate 3
Joekerr7917.00
MKSixer34116.00
      01-30-2020, 12:18 AM   #4739
Turkish Pickle
Banned
United_States
3056
Rep
381
Posts

Drives: '21 330i xDrive
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Chicago, IL

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
is pennsiveguy becoming an e-girl on a car forum?

when can we buy your pee and/or your bath water?
if i donate to your stream, will you announce my name as "Thank you Turkish Pickle!"?
Appreciate 2
King Rudi13070.50
      01-30-2020, 12:30 AM   #4740
pennsiveguy
Major
pennsiveguy's Avatar
United_States
3548
Rep
1,062
Posts

Drives: F15 xDrive50i M-sport
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Edina, MN

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle View Post
is pennsiveguy becoming an e-girl on a car forum?

when can we buy your pee and/or your bath water?
if i donate to your stream, will you announce my name as "Thank you Turkish Pickle!"?
My marketing team is tabulating the focus group data as I type this. Belly-button lint and nail clippings are the strong players at this point, but it's early in the game.

Yes, shout-outs are available for $5 each.
__________________
2017 F15 xDrive50i M Sport | Superformance GT40 Roush 511 IR FE
Appreciate 2
Joekerr7917.00
      01-30-2020, 03:18 AM   #4741
Dang3r
Schmollbraten
Dang3r's Avatar
Germany
12482
Rep
1,985
Posts

Drives: M4CPC // HP4 Comp.
Join Date: Jun 2015
Location: Liandri Central Core

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by UncleWede View Post
Can we request with goat arms too???
BAN!
__________________
Citizen of ///M - Town, where too much is just right

Some say, that my scrotum has its own small gravity field and when Im slowing down that brake lights come on at my buttox
Appreciate 0
      01-30-2020, 06:47 AM   #4742
CTinline-six
Hoonigan
CTinline-six's Avatar
United_States
6941
Rep
3,016
Posts

Drives: '09 328i, '98 Wrangler
Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: Connecticut

iTrader: (0)

Garage List


I hate all of you.
__________________
"Yeah, but your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should."

-Dr. Ian Malcolm, Jurassic Park
Appreciate 3
MKSixer34116.00
      01-30-2020, 07:55 AM   #4743
FuriouslyFast
Banned
United_States
859
Rep
407
Posts

Drives: Miss Daisy
Join Date: Jul 2019
Location: PA

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by pennsiveguy View Post
I always get there first and sit so I'm facing the door. Fewer distractions for them. It's an old sales trick.

Deal breaker: if she picks her phone up more than once or twice (unless the date goes longer than an hour or so, or she's showing me pix). I leave mine in my car; whatever's going on, I'll catch up when the date's over. If she'd rather be texting "IKR?" to her besty than having a conversation with me, I'll happily let her do so while I get up and leave. I've done that 3 times and it felt fantastic. If her life revolves around her phone, we're not a match. I own my phone; my phone doesn't own me.
I do one better...I make sure to meet them outside & if they end up not looking like the pics, I just walk away & they never knew it. Done that before.

Same on the phone thing...right after I call them on it.
Appreciate 0
      01-30-2020, 08:19 AM   #4744
Joekerr
Banned
7917
Rep
1,923
Posts

Drives: 2017 Audi S6
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Toronto, ON

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by pennsiveguy View Post
Based on the market opportunity I'm seeing here, I've decided to start a hairy arm cam show, as a side hustle. I'll be doing dishes, detailing my humidifier, folding laundry. I'll post the URL when it goes live.

Oooh - can we take guesses on what the URL will be?

The two front runner guesses from me are:

"Zoo animals doing human things.com"
"missing link found.com"
Appreciate 1
      01-30-2020, 10:41 AM   #4745
UncleWede
Long Time Admirer, First Time Owner
UncleWede's Avatar
United_States
18347
Rep
9,414
Posts

Drives: G01 X3 M40i Dark Graphite
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Oxnard, CA

iTrader: (0)

Socky-things FTMFW!!!!
__________________
I have romped on her and I giggled like a drunk infant the entire time. - Sedan_Clan
Appreciate 0
      01-30-2020, 01:43 PM   #4746
FuriouslyFast
Banned
United_States
859
Rep
407
Posts

Drives: Miss Daisy
Join Date: Jul 2019
Location: PA

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by Joekerr View Post
Oooh - can we take guesses on what the URL will be?

The two front runner guesses from me are:

"Zoo animals doing human things.com"
"missing link found.com"
Cake farts
Appreciate 0
      01-31-2020, 06:18 AM   #4747
cmyx6go
Colonel
cmyx6go's Avatar
16679
Rep
2,083
Posts

Drives: 2022 X6///M Comp
Join Date: Aug 2015
Location: NYC

iTrader: (2)

Garage List
2019 X6 ///M  [10.00]
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rmtt View Post
Hope everything is okay. I'm sick of hospitals right now.
She's finally in a room after two days in the ER. Thank you. And hang in there.
__________________
I thought I was a good person but the way I react when people drive slowly in the left lane would suggest otherwise
Appreciate 6
MKSixer34116.00
Rmtt8201.00
      01-31-2020, 11:35 AM   #4748
premier3is
Major
premier3is's Avatar
1650
Rep
1,011
Posts

Drives: 2019 BMW 330i M-Sport
Join Date: Jul 2019
Location: CA

iTrader: (0)

Update: met her for dinner yesterday. Looked like her pictures thankfully lol. I was going to FaceTime prior to meeting as it was suggested here but I had a good feeling she wasn't lying since she added me on her IG by accepting my request (her IG is private so that tells me in fact it is her).

Anyways, dinner went really well. Down to earth lady. Good job, not money hungry like these other girls I've seen, and has a Model 3 (not that her car matters but I can appreciate someone who doesn't drive beaters lol) Family oriented as well. Spent a good 3.5 hours with her, so I'd call that a good start? We may meet again soon, she lives around an hour from me.
Appreciate 5
      01-31-2020, 11:40 AM   #4749
CTinline-six
Hoonigan
CTinline-six's Avatar
United_States
6941
Rep
3,016
Posts

Drives: '09 328i, '98 Wrangler
Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: Connecticut

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by premier3is View Post
Update: met her for dinner yesterday. Looked like her pictures thankfully lol. I was going to FaceTime prior to meeting as it was suggested here but I had a good feeling she wasn't lying since she added me on her IG by accepting my request (her IG is private so that tells me in fact it is her).

Anyways, dinner went really well. Down to earth lady. Good job, not money hungry like these other girls I've seen, and has a Model 3 (not that her car matters but I can appreciate someone who doesn't drive beaters lol) Family oriented as well. Spent a good 3.5 hours with her, so I'd call that a good start? We may meet again soon, she lives around an hour from me.
That's a really good start.

For me it's been one or the other. They either look nothing like their pictures, or have zero personality.
__________________
"Yeah, but your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should."

-Dr. Ian Malcolm, Jurassic Park
Appreciate 0
      01-31-2020, 11:49 AM   #4750
premier3is
Major
premier3is's Avatar
1650
Rep
1,011
Posts

Drives: 2019 BMW 330i M-Sport
Join Date: Jul 2019
Location: CA

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by CTinline-six View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by premier3is View Post
Update: met her for dinner yesterday. Looked like her pictures thankfully lol. I was going to FaceTime prior to meeting as it was suggested here but I had a good feeling she wasn't lying since she added me on her IG by accepting my request (her IG is private so that tells me in fact it is her).

Anyways, dinner went really well. Down to earth lady. Good job, not money hungry like these other girls I've seen, and has a Model 3 (not that her car matters but I can appreciate someone who doesn't drive beaters lol) Family oriented as well. Spent a good 3.5 hours with her, so I'd call that a good start? We may meet again soon, she lives around an hour from me.
That's a really good start.

For me it's been one or the other. They either look nothing like their pictures, or have zero personality.
I hear that's a pretty common case these days. When you say zero personality, how were you made aware of it? The usual lacking of quality engaging conversations or just a lack of enthusiasm?
Appreciate 0
      01-31-2020, 11:51 AM   #4751
pennsiveguy
Major
pennsiveguy's Avatar
United_States
3548
Rep
1,062
Posts

Drives: F15 xDrive50i M-sport
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Edina, MN

iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Quote:
Originally Posted by premier3is View Post
Update: met her for dinner yesterday. Looked like her pictures thankfully lol. I was going to FaceTime prior to meeting as it was suggested here but I had a good feeling she wasn't lying since she added me on her IG by accepting my request (her IG is private so that tells me in fact it is her).

Anyways, dinner went really well. Down to earth lady. Good job, not money hungry like these other girls I've seen, and has a Model 3 (not that her car matters but I can appreciate someone who doesn't drive beaters lol) Family oriented as well. Spent a good 3.5 hours with her, so I'd call that a good start? We may meet again soon, she lives around an hour from me.
This is excellent news! Hoping for continued positive developments on this one. Keep meeting other women too, though. It's important to keep perspective and have options, IMO.
__________________
2017 F15 xDrive50i M Sport | Superformance GT40 Roush 511 IR FE
Appreciate 0
      01-31-2020, 11:55 AM   #4752
premier3is
Major
premier3is's Avatar
1650
Rep
1,011
Posts

Drives: 2019 BMW 330i M-Sport
Join Date: Jul 2019
Location: CA

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by pennsiveguy View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by premier3is View Post
Update: met her for dinner yesterday. Looked like her pictures thankfully lol. I was going to FaceTime prior to meeting as it was suggested here but I had a good feeling she wasn't lying since she added me on her IG by accepting my request (her IG is private so that tells me in fact it is her).

Anyways, dinner went really well. Down to earth lady. Good job, not money hungry like these other girls I've seen, and has a Model 3 (not that her car matters but I can appreciate someone who doesn't drive beaters lol) Family oriented as well. Spent a good 3.5 hours with her, so I'd call that a good start? We may meet again soon, she lives around an hour from me.
This is excellent news! Hoping for continued positive developments on this one. Keep meeting other women too, though. It's important to keep perspective and have options, IMO.
Thanks. Yea that's what I plan on doing. But this whole swiping business on apps gets pretty repetitive and tiring! It's like having a second job, I'm sure the others here who are on dating apps can relate. Start by matching, starting a convo, talking for a short while then ending with getting ghosted or deciding she's a waste of your time.. then rinse and repeat.

Do you all feel the same?
Appreciate 3
Post Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:06 PM.




1addicts
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
1Addicts.com, BIMMERPOST.com, E90Post.com, F30Post.com, M3Post.com, ZPost.com, 5Post.com, 6Post.com, 7Post.com, XBimmers.com logo and trademark are properties of BIMMERPOST