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LOL I called my dad out on this last time I saw him in person. He was bitching about my step mom and I asked him if he was 5 months pregnant. Dude is retired and has a full gym in his basement, no excuses.
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If he wants to donate an ab bench, I'll gladly take it off his hands lol.
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I've dated thick and skinny....the first ex-wife gave up on life and blew up....and still growing to this day. I don't base my attraction off body type. The thicker girls that I have dated had great personalities or held themselves in such a way that they looked great. I have never dated an unattractive person. I can find any body type attractive aside from BBW or SSBBW. I say this as before I started going to the gym, I didn't really place much focus on body type; it was personality and intellect. Now that I work as hard as I do on how I look, I couldn't date anyone who just doesn't care about how they look. It may be shallow, but I guess the point I am making is that what a person is focused on creates the basis of what they expect from a partner.
Now with this being said, if I were married to someone and they gained weight, it wouldn't be a deal breaker unless they were to just give up completely. Looks are a great indicator of what a person places focus on, but damn near every woman that I have dated; seems to give up after they feel like they have "secured" me. Current girlfriend is the only exception to this.
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Those things are either: a. the result of a personality change or b. the original person was a lie. Either way, Im not obligated to someone who started the relationship on a lie or has changed on me, and I wouldn't expect them to be obligated to me if I did either. Ideally you find someone who is doing it "for themselves" and youre just benefitting from it. Someone who puts work in to better themselves is going to be the more desirable person for a myriad of reasons. |
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I’m a have my cake and eat it too guy. (Get it, I seem to be asking that more lately). That said, I can’t do man chest. Lets define “smaller” here with a bit more context. Agree on fit and nice ass you worked for is paramount, but can’t do saggy sock tits or little boy chest either…. I want it all, doesnt everyone?
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Interesting comments. I'm definitely in the camp of any chest, so long as the behind is in order. And not fussed by skinny/large, so long as they take care of themselves.
Right now though, I'm definitely the one in my relationship who's let themself go. I've put on about 8kg and lost a bunch of muscle and fitness since the start of our relationship. Partly due to rubbish mental health, partly laziness, partly kids. She's slimmer than when we met. ...but I'm much fitter and stronger than she is still, for what it's worth. I certainly wouldn't be put off her of she put on weight. |
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No offense, just wanted to say that my next scheduled visit is beyond borders of your home area.
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Sometimes every body is going down a bit and I am inbetween far enough to accept my weak spots and little problem zones. Fair enough that the opposite side should have the same privileg.
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But Ive also heard the same as you said. And hearsay is all Ive got. Either way I keep trying to get her to get a fitting because the pasties look funny (that is what she has gone to using under thin shirts). |
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10-12-2021, 03:22 PM | #11037 |
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See I always thought it was that way too, but not wanting to mansplain. I've always thought she needed a bigger cup size than she thinks she is because she has a really small rib cage (really thin in general) and it looks like she went up more than just the single cup size.
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Well this has been an informative discussion
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still waiting for my man boobs to develop.
oh you meant for my wife? eh... we're married.... I let her figure that stuff out on her own.
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This sounds like an appropriate fantasy football punishment. Last place team has to get a bra fitting at VS.
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I'm always late to the good conversations. Damn timezones.
I have nothing against aftermarket racks as long as they look natural in size and shape. The huge or round as a grapefruit fake tatas that don't move unless they spread apart when you move your arms are not attractive, nor are the hack jobs where one side looks like a potato and the other side is pointing to the ceiling. But at the same time when a gal appears to have been blessed up top and then you find nothing but padding, well, that sucks too. I'm a tummy guy. I remember when low rise jeans and a flat tummy was the "in" thing and I miss those days. Now its high waist yoga pants or leggings to hide the tummy and lift the ass. I've developed a love/hate relationship with yoga pants and leggings because of how well they hide everything. I get it, gals feel good wearing those things because they lift the booty and flatten the tummy, but that's not actually you. You're only lying to yourself, and if in the bedroom you go from looking like you take care of yourself to looking like you sit on your ass and eat pizza all day, then I'm not interested. Luckily I have a girl who is on the same page as me when it comes to the importance of physical appearance to remain happy in a relationship. We are both working on ourselves after the past couple years of "stay home" have started to show. |
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The relaxing part is 1) we never would met coincidentally because I am onto no dating apps etc. and 2) East coast is not my destination pool so I wouldnt sit at a table elsewhere when you are stumbling in and look around for a pilot
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