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      11-01-2018, 11:31 AM   #1299
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Probably not the same excited you're thinking of. Don't overthink this, she's not dripping over the thought of you...

upstatedoc care to answer our questions on the stitches?
i mean yeah, have you seen my face?
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Probably not the same excited you're thinking of. Don't overthink this, she's not dripping over the thought of you...

upstatedoc care to answer our questions on the stitches?
i mean yeah, have you seen my face?
I didn't, yet...
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So "Advice for the young at heart" is playing on the radio right now.

upstatedoc it's very apropos for you...

Shall I paste the lyrics here or will you take the effin hint?
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      11-01-2018, 12:14 PM   #1302
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So if she's taking out the stitches, who's driving her?
i didnt ask her, i think her gf drove her back from procedure last week. thats the other thing, i dont know if she has any other romantic interests. i don't and i don't date multiple women at the same time. wont do it. and to be honest if she is dating other guys i will stop my pursuit
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So if she's taking out the stitches, who's driving her?
i didnt ask her, i think her gf drove her back from procedure last week. thats the other thing, i dont know if she has any other romantic interests. i don't and i don't date multiple women at the same time. wont do it. and to be honest if she is dating other guys i will stop my pursuit
It behooves you and I to know who's taking her to the hospital.
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      11-01-2018, 12:26 PM   #1304
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i didnt ask her, i think her gf drove her back from procedure last week. thats the other thing, i dont know if she has any other romantic interests. i don't and i don't date multiple women at the same time. wont do it. and to be honest if she is dating other guys i will stop my pursuit
I'm not precisely certain that "pursuit" is the proper word to describe what you are doing.

Pick up the phone, text her and ask if you can bring dinner over to keep her off her feet. And if you can help with driving her back if hasn't happened already.

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I'm not precisely certain that "pursuit" is the proper word to describe what you are doing.

Pick up the phone, text her and ask if you can bring dinner over to keep her off her feet. And if you can help with driving her back if hasn't happened already.

Face palm.
This. I can't help but feel like the guy hiding in the bushes telling the suitor what to shout to the window of the lady he is trying to woo. Except in this case you have 10 of us hiding in the bushes.

I feel like she might be better suited dating one of us.

On a serious note. This is EXACTLY, what you need to do. In order to formulate a game plan, you have to know what you are working with. As Mr. King stated above, call or text her NOW and offer dinner. Once you are to where you can talk to her, find out if she is romantically involved with anyone, then decide what your next move is.
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      11-01-2018, 12:47 PM   #1306
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Women enjoy small wang too. Look at it this way, if you're huge most complain that it hurts, unless they are a straight up whore, and they spend the time wiggling away from what you're giving or just trying to relax. If it's average to small, they work harder for the off. I've dug deep in this conversation with many ladies. Most will say large is nice to look at but most with largeness have no idea what to do with it. The average to smaller guys also try harder. Most of the women I have talked to on this subject have said the best sex they ever had was with a guy who was small.
So you're advocating small dicks??
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So you're advocating small dicks??
Negative. Sharing information. It's what I do. I could care less what size any of you are. I know what I'm packing.
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So you're advocating small dicks??
Negative. Sharing information. It's what I do. I could care less what size any of you are. I know what I'm packing.
I found that for us to do a proper docking you need to care about those things Judy.
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Probably not the same excited you're thinking of. Don't overthink this, she's not dripping over the thought of you...

upstatedoc care to answer our questions on the stitches?
How do ya know? They don't say they're excited to see you if they just feel meh about it. She could have easily said something like "Cool, let's chill if we have time."
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Probably not the same excited you're thinking of. Don't overthink this, she's not dripping over the thought of you...

upstatedoc care to answer our questions on the stitches?
How do ya know? They don't say they're excited to see you if they just feel meh about it. She could have easily said something like "Cool, let's chill if we have time."
That's precisely what I meant man...

Edit: to clarify: that she's excited to see him.
But not aroused, hence the "dripping" part lol
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I found that for us to do a proper docking you need to care about those things Judy.
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This. I can't help but feel like the guy hiding in the bushes telling the suitor what to shout to the window of the lady he is trying to woo. Except in this case you have 10 of us hiding in the bushes.

I feel like she might be better suited dating one of us.

On a serious note. This is EXACTLY, what you need to do. In order to formulate a game plan, you have to know what you are working with. As Mr. King stated above, call or text her NOW and offer dinner. Once you are to where you can talk to her, find out if she is romantically involved with anyone, then decide what your next move is.
I'll tell you who's bush does not have anyone in it...Danielle's. doc FTL
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upstatedoc *I* commend you for taking the blues for the kids, and thinking with more than your little wang in this.
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I found that for us to do a proper docking you need to care about those things Judy.
Holy shit! There will be absolutely no docking done over here sir....none.
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She probably hasn't made it back to her dorm yet after a long halloween night...
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I'm not precisely certain that "pursuit" is the proper word to describe what you are doing.

Pick up the phone, text her and ask if you can bring dinner over to keep her off her feet. And if you can help with driving her back if hasn't happened already.

Face palm.
did that already and she said thank you very much
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i dont know if she has any other romantic interests.
You can't have that mindset.

Don't care about any other potential interests she may have. There will always be a "what if" that could stop you from doing something. She obviously likes you. Most women would have kept the conversation very formal long before this if she thought otherwise, and wouldn't want to hang out with you.

Even if she has other guys trying to approach her, maybe she is ignoring them and hoping something happens with you?

With my first GF I thought the same way. She was way out of my league in my mind, and had lots of guys talking to her. It was high school, and most of them were football players who were much more built than I was. We hung out one night at a game and I walked her to her car. We chatted for what seemed like forever and finally I just went for it and made out with her. If I just hugged her and left wondering what could've been, we would have never dated.

The next time you see her, walk right up to her and kiss her without saying a word. I'm 99% sure you will be glad you did.
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You can't have that mindset.

Don't care about any other potential interests she may have. There will always be a "what if" that could stop you from doing something. She obviously likes you. Most women would have kept the conversation very formal long before this if she thought otherwise, and wouldn't want to hang out with you.

Even if she has other guys trying to approach her, maybe she is ignoring them and hoping something happens with you?

With my first GF I thought the same way. She was way out of my league in my mind, and had lots of guys talking to her. It was high school, and most of them were football players who were much more built than I was. We hung out one night at a game and I walked her to her car. We chatted for what seemed like forever and finally I just went for it and made out with her. If I just hugged her and left wondering what could've been, we would have never dated.

The next time you see her, walk right up to her and kiss her without saying a word. I'm 99% sure you will be glad you did.
100% agree with my man inline 6; you are you and she is she, controlling her until you two agree on being exclusive you can't really expect that from someone else

also, regardless: you did say she told you she's avail unless her ex is in town, i highly doubt they talk about normal friendly stuff with him. given she still sees her ex (that she divorced from) you aren't the only one in the equation anyway... this shouldn't be a reason for you to "give up" though, at least wouldn't be for me since i feel like until both of you agree that you are exclusive you should be going out yourself but maybe that's the 20 year old me talking.

you clearly want something to happen, otherwise i dont think any normal person would post about this so much/often. just make it happen!
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I found that for us to do a proper docking you need to care about those things Judy.
Weird flex, but ok...
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Weird flex, but ok...
Is there such thing as a three way docking?
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