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      04-15-2019, 12:23 AM   #3565
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is there an english word when you should feel remorseful for something you did but you don't because it had to happen at some point?
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Not even one. Not a single letter?
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is there an english word when you should feel remorseful for something you did but you don't because it had to happen at some point?
I typically use "sorry, not sorry."
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submission sex sounds very interesting lol
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submission sex sounds very interesting lol
RIGHT??? This needs to be a sport. The awesome thing is that no one loses!

I could totally see Playboy taking this idea and running with it for a series.
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RIGHT??? This needs to be a sport. The awesome thing is that no one loses!

I could totally see Playboy taking this idea and running with it for a series.
Rapists. The lot of you.
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if you try this at home, have your spouse sign a note "not responsible for consequences"
if things go wrong lol

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if you try this at home, have your spouse sign a note "not responsible for consequences"
if things go wrong lol

I keep release of liability forms in the night stand on the side of the bed I don't sleep on. These always get mentioned when ladies that make it to the bedroom notice the counter pen with a chain attached to the nightstand and ask why it's there.
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      04-15-2019, 11:19 AM   #3573
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No ragrets.
Not even one. Not a single letter?
Ummm no.
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I typically use "sorry, not sorry."
the only thing i'm feeling bad about is my delivery tbh, i rarely do that stuff over text AND what i said is definitely not the nicest thing to say either
so i am sorry for how i executed it, but definitely not sorry for the content...
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the only thing i'm feeling bad about is my delivery tbh, i rarely do that stuff over text AND what i said is definitely not the nicest thing to say either
so i am sorry for how i executed it, but definitely not sorry for the content...
You have me curious lad. What did you say? Don't Smollet yourself, we all have assholish tendencies at times.
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You have me curious lad. What did you say? Don't Smollet, we all have assholish tendencies at times.
FTFY.
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You have me curious lad. What did you say? Don't Smollet yourself, we all have assholish tendencies at times.


so i was away for the weekend at a competition, and so i was pretty busy during the day, but you gotta keep those snap streaks going it's dumb but it's what it is. so to keep the numbers going i just sent them the cool stuff that was on my story instead of carrying a small conversation going.

the girl i had a thing with (the ikea girl) snaps me "if you send me more stuff from your story im going to get mad" and i replied "you dont do cool enough shit for me to respond with an individual snap man like youre cool and shit sometimes yeah but generally i dont vibe with that"

odd thing is she still is in contact with me, like texts and stuff. she is cute but i'm not really into the "shoot my brains out when i'm not inside her" thing anymore, i'd like to hold conversation with people im involved with... the fact that i pulled this off and she still tries to stick around is nothing but absurd, i'd call what i did disrespectful and i'd be pretty salty if someone said that to me
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so i was away for the weekend at a competition, and so i was pretty busy during the day, but you gotta keep those snap streaks going it's dumb but it's what it is. so to keep the numbers going i just sent them the cool stuff that was on my story instead of carrying a small conversation going.

the girl i had a thing with (the ikea girl) snaps me "if you send me more stuff from your story im going to get mad" and i replied "you dont do cool enough shit for me to respond with an individual snap man like youre cool and shit sometimes yeah but generally i dont vibe with that"

odd thing is she still is in contact with me, like texts and stuff. she is cute but i'm not really into the "shoot my brains out when i'm not inside her" thing anymore, i'd like to hold conversation with people im involved with... the fact that i pulled this off and she still tries to stick around is nothing but absurd, i'd call what i did disrespectful and i'd be pretty salty if someone said that to me
My advice, if the snootch is the only thing worth being around for, go find someone that you can carry a conversation with and let the sex be just an added bonus.

Although, if this were that simple everyone would be with the perfect person already.

I'd just step away from this one man, you're spinning your wheels.
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My advice, if the snootch is the only thing worth being around for, go find someone that you can carry a conversation with and let the sex be just an added bonus.

Although, if this were that simple everyone would be with the perfect person already.

I'd just step away from this one man, you're spinning your wheels.
i 100% agree with you, as i said i knew this was going to happen since she's going to grad school next year in another city so at most we had until early august to keep this going. so all in all i'm at a "loss" of a few months if you can even call that a loss.

i honestly can't think of anything that's a compelling reason for me to stick around. before this it was just two people having fun but at this point i can't even respect her as a human being for not even calling me a dick about this...
(this isn't to say i enjoy being called names, but you get the point)
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i 100% agree with you, as i said i knew this was going to happen since she's going to grad school next year in another city so at most we had until early august to keep this going. so all in all i'm at a "loss" of a few months if you can even call that a loss.

i honestly can't think of anything that's a compelling reason for me to stick around. before this it was just two people having fun but at this point i can't even respect her as a human being for not even calling me a dick about this...
(this isn't to say i enjoy being called names, but you get the point)
I'm with you on the lack of respect. If I can't respect someone I don't even want to be in the same room with them. She sounds extremely desperate for attention. I foresee an abusive relationship in her near future. Not that I'm advocate for this, but just a hunch.
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I'm with you on the lack of respect. If I can't respect someone I don't even want to be in the same room with them. She sounds extremely desperate for attention. I foresee an abusive relationship in her near future. Not that I'm advocate for this, but just a hunch.
i hope not, she's a sweetheart which sadly probably means it's bound to happen even more

but i can't save everyone
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i hope not, she's a sweetheart which sadly probably means it's bound to happen even more

but i can't save everyone

.......and so it is written.

Do her a solid and at least let her know she needs to get on top of her game or she'll end up hipping around newborns in a single-wide while wearing eye makeup applied by Budweiser and her boyfriends knuckles.
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.......and so it is written.

Do her a solid and at least let her know she needs to get on top of her game or she'll end up hipping around newborns in a single-wide while wearing eye makeup applied by Budweiser and her boyfriends knuckles.
I shouldn't have laughed at that description, but how does one go about telling her that? "you're an incredibly nice person and i don't want you to call 911 because you changed the channel so just beware"?
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I shouldn't have laughed at that description, but how does one go about telling her that? "you're an incredibly nice person and i don't want you to call 911 because you changed the channel so just beware"?
I'm clueless on that one. There has to be some form of a preemptive strategy for domestic abuse. How has Gillette not covered this in a commercial yet?

disclaimer: I would like to mention to all who may read this that I am not making light of domestic abuse. I just hate to see anyone fall into this lifestyle by the inability to take up for themselves.
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she thought i was joking - some of you will remember last time i was about to leave she ended up coming over and gave me shit for "trying to break up with her" since then - but it wasn't nice when she realized i was actually serious...

she handled it well but i could tell she was heartbroken. we both knew it wasn't really something for the history books with her going to grad school etc but still i felt like she was at least expecting this talk to happen a few months down the line, not today


i feel bad about it, almost as if it was an actual break up with a girlfriend but i stand by my decision... :I
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she thought i was joking - some of you will remember last time i was about to leave she ended up coming over and gave me shit for "trying to break up with her" since then - but it wasn't nice when she realized i was actually serious...

she handled it well but i could tell she was heartbroken. we both knew it wasn't really something for the history books with her going to grad school etc but still i felt like she was at least expecting this talk to happen a few months down the line, not today


i feel bad about it, almost as if it was an actual break up with a girlfriend but i stand by my decision... :I
The right thing to do is never easy. Shows you have a big heart but but that doesn't keep you from the right thing. Well done pickle.
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