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According to your posts. Real life may be a different story.
*oh right shes probably still reading* ![]()
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![]() and no, both my arms and my phone are still in arms reach. i've just been working then going to car-related events, deleted all the dating apps so absolutely nothing for this thread has happened the picture is practically me at this point - all female contact i've had until this point in summer has been wife/gf of friends or the cashiers |
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07-09-2019, 07:17 AM | #3811 |
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Just to give this thread a little update.... Things are going well between me and the widow. We're really enjoying spending time with each other and even took a trip to Nashville together a couple of weekends ago.
There have been several discussions about the fact that neither of us feel like we're in a place right now to be truly serious, however. Then she accidentally said "I love you" the other night as we were heading our separate ways after hanging out. ![]() |
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07-09-2019, 09:10 AM | #3815 |
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Wait a minute......"accidentally" said I love you? No one accidentally says this. Lots of thought went into this.....from how to say it, when to say it, etc. Especially if it came from the female first. I can assure you, if she said it, it was well planned and thought out for weeks before it was muttered.
I too am curious as to how the rest of the exchange followed. I've been lucky enough to share the sentiment of anyone who has ever said it to me. I mean, how does a person respond to such a thing in the event that the feeling is not mutual? |
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It's a weird feeling. I remember back when I was dating after my divorce. I went through pretty much all the available women in my town and the next town over. Had a friend sat me up with my now wife who was from a few hours away. She was the first person I went out with for longer than probably 6 weeks or so. About 6 months into dating, she told me that she loved me. I remember it like it was yesterday. I told her I was sorry, but I couldn't tell her the same thing. I also told her she should respect the fact that I could be that honest with her, and didn't want to lead her on. But I said I still wanted to see where things would go. It was about 6 months after that...I asked her if she remembered telling me that. She said yes...and I told her that I was at that point now, and could say the same to her and actually mean it. We were married a year later. Maybe it sounds cruel...but you guys have to know that I actually never planned on getting married again. I had almost 7 years to myself. I learned I could be happy on my own, and didn't need anyone to make me happy. I had my own nice place, custody of my daughter, a few fun cars....and basically my pick of women in this small town whenever I wanted as I guess at 27-34 years old...they were desperate. ![]() And when you add in the attitude that I had of "I could care less"....it was like I had a magnet drawing them in. I was never mean or rude to anyone....but I let them know up front I was out to have fun and not looking for anything serious. But I guess they thought they could be the one to change my mind.
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I completely understand. Now granted....we were seeing each other exclusively at that point. I told her I did have feelings for her, but couldn't tell her that I love her as that would be leading her on. I told her I was definitely interested in seeing where things may go for us, but could understand if she felt differently. I think she actually respected me for that as it showed her I wasn't using her. Plus she was a an independent woman who had been on her own for awhile, owned her own house, and successful career before we ever got together. She had never been married, and I just wanted to make it clear that I took that kind of thing seriously as it would also involve my daughter's life as well....not just myself!
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Edit: My reaction was to turn and look at her quizzingly and smile real big, to which she said "That's not what I meant. I mean, I like you". I just kept smiling and said goodnight. We've had some pretty good discussions regarding how we both feel and what we're ready and not ready for in this relationship. We've both expressed the fact that we have love for each other, but it isn't at that point yet. I'm not sure if this clears things up or makes it more confusing. ![]() Last edited by FuzzyPeaches; 07-09-2019 at 03:18 PM.. Reason: Added content |
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glad to see the boys have rescued themselves out of the ratchet realm. i'll let you guys know if/when i get out as well
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Nice! I was in Gatlinburg in mid June when I did a road trip. I think that is about 2 hours or so away I remember seeing it on the GPS.
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we've all heard the horror stories about single moms, but what is the cut off between a divorced milf and a "single mom"?
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