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05-27-2019, 09:49 PM | #3721 |
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There's just one guy dating a widow.
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05-28-2019, 11:10 AM | #3722 |
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05-28-2019, 12:43 PM | #3723 | |
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I was also a little drunk last night when I posted that and don't normally put my issues out there for people I don't know. I might come back after work and throw the pieces out there and see if anyone can help me put them together correctly. |
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05-28-2019, 12:49 PM | #3724 |
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a widow/widower needs time. my ex bil's wife died when she was 35. that was 6 years ago. i dont think he started dating again for 4 years after that
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05-28-2019, 12:51 PM | #3726 |
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Not always the case. I've seen both sides of the spectrum on this. Really depends on the person and the mental duress they are under. Children born of said marriage play a hand in this as well.
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05-29-2019, 06:45 AM | #3727 |
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Sorry. I forgot about this once I got home last night.
Things with her seem to be going really well, but then she starts getting weird and saying typical things like "I'm just worried about timing" and such. She comes across as wanting to date but being very worried that she can't spend enough time with me as a single mother to 2 young teens. I just keep trying to put her at ease that I'm good with spending whatever time we can find together. |
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05-29-2019, 08:06 AM | #3728 | |
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How long ago did her significant other pass? How long were they together? If she's spending any time at all with you it's good sign. Stay your path and keep us informed. |
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05-29-2019, 08:48 AM | #3733 |
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OH... I'm afraid there's going to be a little disappointment here. As I said previously, I was a bit under the influence when I made the original post. There's no real "story". More a situation for the collective mind here to mull over and good good, bad, or hilarious advice.
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05-29-2019, 08:52 AM | #3735 |
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Am I that guy?
![]() I'm currently dating one and I'm loving it. She does talk about her dead husband from time to time, but I'm ok with it. She treats me really well and I'm really lucky to have her. It did take a long time for her to go from friend to something more though. That was a frustrating experience. |
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She has also had a failed 1.5 year relationship in the time between the death of her husband and now. That's how I'm taking it. She did invite me over to her neighborhood pool over the weekend saying it would be nice to have me there with her. I'm not able to go to her house though, because she isn't ready to explain to her kids who I am. |
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She became a widow about 3-4 years ago. It took about 5-6 months (I think). It was a lot of work though. I gave up and that's when she reached out to me saying she loved me.
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