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      09-23-2018, 03:29 PM   #617
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I don’t like messaging anyone. I just put up with it because it’s a necessity.

Plus she is hot and Asian and I’ve got a thing for Asian girls
I also catch Yellow Fever occasionally.
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      09-23-2018, 03:31 PM   #618
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It happens a lot these days, don't fret. Most of these bitches just want the attention with no intention of following through with meeting. They live sad lives.
Basically yes. I'm at a certain point in my life and career that I'm not going to take orders from some shallow thot who can't even figure out her college major. It's all about getting attention and having a guy bend over to their demands. Eff that...
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      09-23-2018, 04:14 PM   #619
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Basically yes. I'm at a certain point in my life and career that I'm not going to take orders from some shallow thot who can't even figure out her college major. It's all about getting attention and having a guy bend over to their demands. Eff that...
preach...
c'est la vie bro, build it and they'll come focus on yourself
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      09-23-2018, 05:05 PM   #620
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Yea, pretty much the only reason I will text someone is to arrange or plan something to do in person.

Sending someone a ‘good morning’ text every morning just seems pointless to me.
What if you're in a relationship with that person?

Regardless, you have to put in the work, as do they, if you want to have something great & long term with someone...
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      09-23-2018, 05:26 PM   #621
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Yea, pretty much the only reason I will text someone is to arrange or plan something to do in person.

Sending someone a ‘good morning’ text every morning just seems pointless to me.
What if you're in a relationship with that person?

Regardless, you have to put in the work, as do they, if you want to have something great & long term with someone...
Yeah, good morning texts show you're thinking about someone and they'd mean a lot to me!
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      09-23-2018, 06:40 PM   #622
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Yea, pretty much the only reason I will text someone is to arrange or plan something to do in person.

Sending someone a ‘good morning’ text every morning just seems pointless to me.
Lol I feel the same way. I'm busy and got things to do, don't have the patience for "good morning" texts.

But it seems like we gotta suck it up and do it.
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Lol I feel the same way. I'm busy and got things to do, don't have the patience for "good morning" texts.

But it seems like we gotta suck it up and do it.
No one is too busy to take 2 seconds to send a text, man. Even Mark Cuban has time for that.

We make time for the things & people we truly want to.
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      09-23-2018, 07:04 PM   #624
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No one is too busy to take 2 seconds to send a text, man. Even Mark Cuban has time for that.

We make time for the things & people we truly want to.
This. 100%.
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      09-23-2018, 10:29 PM   #625
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Lol I feel the same way. I'm busy and got things to do, don't have the patience for "good morning" texts.

But it seems like we gotta suck it up and do it.
No one is too busy to take 2 seconds to send a text, man. Even Mark Cuban has time for that.

We make time for the things & people we truly want to.
Yup. I hate it when people say they're too busy to text. Send one when you're on the toilet if you have to. At least say, "hey sorry, too busy to chat but have a good day!"
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Send one when you're on the toilet if you have to.
Isn't that insulting? Say, which of the outcomes would you like: both, perhaps? Or can text be unnecessary in fact?
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LOL you can't even stand messaging her now, what makes you want to meet her in person?
I don’t like messaging anyone. I just put up with it because it’s a necessity.

Plus she is hot and Asian and I’ve got a thing for Asian girls
Yuk
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Want to hear people's stories about this cause they're always interesting, has anyone had any experiences with a girlfriend/wife/significant other/ex and their cars?
My ex GF sat on my Jetta's shift knob and gave me a show while I was in the back seat. We were in my families garage.
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No one is too busy to take 2 seconds to send a text, man. Even Mark Cuban has time for that.
It's not a matter of having 2 seconds or not, it's a matter of focus and continuity. It is difficult concentrate on tasks when you have to keep looking at your phone every hour to send some cheesy message.

I understand why people do it but it's not for me. I suppose I'm just old school and prefer speaking over the phone and in person.
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I bought the first wife a Jeep Wrangler. For her birthday, I took it over to the radio shop to get some boom in the back seat, and an upgraded unit in front.

As I was folding one seat forward to show the guy where I wanted the speaker boxes, I find a condom wrapper.

*I* had never used a condom with her.

That was the beginning of the end. But the silver lining (I guess) was that the paternity test ruled me out. . .
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      09-24-2018, 07:50 PM   #631
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No one is too busy to take 2 seconds to send a text, man. Even Mark Cuban has time for that.
It's not a matter of having 2 seconds or not, it's a matter of focus and continuity. It is difficult concentrate on tasks when you have to keep looking at your phone every hour to send some cheesy message.

I understand why people do it but it's not for me. I suppose I'm just old school and prefer speaking over the phone and in person.
This is interesting to me. I'm trying to understand this perspective. So you can really like someone but have no urge to text or have a quick chat until you can give your undivided attention? You don't really think about her all day?
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It's not a matter of having 2 seconds or not, it's a matter of focus and continuity. It is difficult concentrate on tasks when you have to keep looking at your phone every hour to send some cheesy message.

I understand why people do it but it's not for me. I suppose I'm just old school and prefer speaking over the phone and in person.
Well, if you wanna call them instead of text, that's fine. Call or text, same thought. The point is, no effort = no positive result.
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I bought the first wife a Jeep Wrangler. For her birthday, I took it over to the radio shop to get some boom in the back seat, and an upgraded unit in front.

As I was folding one seat forward to show the guy where I wanted the speaker boxes, I find a condom wrapper.

*I* had never used a condom with her.

That was the beginning of the end. But the silver lining (I guess) was that the paternity test ruled me out. . .
Maybe left over from previous owner
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I bought the first wife a Jeep Wrangler. For her birthday, I took it over to the radio shop to get some boom in the back seat, and an upgraded unit in front.

As I was folding one seat forward to show the guy where I wanted the speaker boxes, I find a condom wrapper.

*I* had never used a condom with her.

That was the beginning of the end. But the silver lining (I guess) was that the paternity test ruled me out. . .
Maybe left over from previous owner
Maybe it was new car ?
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Maybe left over from previous owner
The paternity test left him out so yea no...
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      09-25-2018, 07:24 AM   #636
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I bought the first wife a Jeep Wrangler. For her birthday, I took it over to the radio shop to get some boom in the back seat, and an upgraded unit in front.

As I was folding one seat forward to show the guy where I wanted the speaker boxes, I find a condom wrapper.

*I* had never used a condom with her.

That was the beginning of the end. But the silver lining (I guess) was that the paternity test ruled me out. . .


What a bitch. Yes, the silver lining is getting as far from that as possible.
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I bought the first wife a Jeep Wrangler. For her birthday, I took it over to the radio shop to get some boom in the back seat, and an upgraded unit in front.

As I was folding one seat forward to show the guy where I wanted the speaker boxes, I find a condom wrapper.

*I* had never used a condom with her.

That was the beginning of the end. But the silver lining (I guess) was that the paternity test ruled me out. . .
DAYUM!!! That's rough man.

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Maybe left over from previous owner
That was my first thought too.

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Maybe it was new car ?
Counter point. UncleWede new car?

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The paternity test left him out so yea no...
and there you have it....
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It's not a matter of having 2 seconds or not, it's a matter of focus and continuity. It is difficult concentrate on tasks when you have to keep looking at your phone every hour to send some cheesy message.

I understand why people do it but it's not for me. I suppose I'm just old school and prefer speaking over the phone and in person.
for real, you cant multitask? can you type and talk on the phone at same time?
life is about juggling things around and making time to do things in simple format.
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