[JamesWWIII]

It’s long past time to just rename this thread, “DEAR PENTHOUSE FORUM...”

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Originally Posted by JamesWWIII

It's long past time to just rename this thread, "DEAR PENTHOUSE FORUM..."

We actually need more players to share their dating stories, the good and the bad.

And some girls can also share, because they bring a different perspective.

Who do we have still? Lups and Tara? bimmette

[aozer]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

I don't have any pets right now, but I just tossed the 1 photo on my phone of my last dog in some profiles (I'm not in the shot) so let's see if that changes anything.

It should be a pic of you with your dog, a random pic of a dog isn’t gonna do shit haha

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by aozer

It should be a pic of you with your dog, a random pic of a dog isn’t gonna do shit haha

Can't hurt either way. Worst case it does nothing & I pull it.

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

She didn't send you pics...

Sure thing. I'll get banned if a post a pussy shot so yea not doing it.

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Sure thing. I'll get banned if a post a pussy shot so yea not doing it.

Edit them out a bit to make them safe and anonymous... C'mon, we never asked anything from you lol

[aozer]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Any examples of what to say?

I had a picture of my cat, but I took it out because they only allow 6 pictures.

No politics, religion, etc.

Keep it short and light hearted, like two or three sentences. Try to incorporate some humor and mention something you’re passionate about.

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Originally Posted by aozer

No politics, religion, etc.

Keep it short and light hearted, like two or three sentences. Try to incorporate some humor and mention something you’re passionate about.

Like what? I'm lame at those and I stop when I try because I think "isn't that just going to make them filter out based on prejudice" or "shouldn't this be part of the discovery during in person meetings and such"...

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Like what? I'm lame at those and I stop when I try because I think "isn't that just going to make them filter out based on prejudice" or "shouldn't this be part of the discovery during in person meetings and such"...

Well, you're into cars. I mention that in my profiles. I also cook & bake so I mention that too.

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Edit them out a bit to make them safe and anonymous... C'mon, we never asked anything from you lol

It's an up close & personal shot of her twat. Ain't no editing that. Ugly beef curtains anyway!

[________]

Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Well, you're into cars. I mention that in my profiles. I also cook & bake so I mention that too.

Thanks I'll give that a shot.
Open to suggestions on what to say by anyone as well. Feel free

[aozer]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Like what? I'm lame at those and I stop when I try because I think "isn't that just going to make them filter out based on prejudice" or "shouldn't this be part of the discovery during in person meetings and such"...

I’m into skateboarding, so I mention that. Most girls don’t give a fuck about skateboarding but it shows that I’m active also probably into art and other shit that is involved in skate culture. I also have a pic of me skating so if you can add any pics that show your interests it helps.

[Turkish Pickle]

my bio changes depending on how im feeling, but currently it's "people tell me i make a great breakfast burrito". it shows that i can cook, and many people has tried it out in the morning...

also my height, a suburb near chicago and my hometown in turkey.

the most success i had was with a picture of me and my friend's dog, with the caption "she had to hold the dog for the picture". extremely cute dog, a solid 8.5/10 and me make for a great picture because preselection (i'm close enough with a hot girl) AND a super cute dog

[________]

Did all of the above.

I was actually character-limited in my description.

Said I moved here a year ago, so I don't know many people, interested in meeting bla bla filled my time with skiing here, racing my car in the summer (picture of me with helmet on), picture of me hugging my cat (I'm not fortunate enough to have a picture of a hot girl holding a cute dog with me), speak other languages and can probably teach some sentences in French.

Should I delete my profile and start over? Lol

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Did all of the above.

I was actually character-limited in my description.

Said I moved here a year ago, so I don't know many people, interested in meeting bla bla filled my time with skiing here, racing my car in the summer (picture of me with helmet on), picture of me hugging my cat (I'm not fortunate enough to have a picture of a hot girl holding a cute dog with me), speak other languages and can probably teach some sentences in French.

Should I delete my profile and start over? Lol

you can delete your profile if you were like me and was just swiping everyone (read: fat chicks) while taking a shit. i did that, re-used the same pics and i was matching with hotter girls.

keep bio short i'd say, idk your age/target age but you'd want to think of it like a job interview (i think those two have a lot of similarities). give enough information to lead them to ask for details. you have a picture of you with a helmet, let her ask what do you do with it. cats are fine, cat girls can be weird but so can horse girls idk that's your call. also i'd say remove the part of not knowing many people, having social command is important at least in my experience. many times even if we're just walking to class i'll say hi to a few people i know and eventually get "wow you know so many people"

about deleting profile: tinder (apparently) has a weird algorithm. if you swipe on everyone but don't get many matches, it'll lower your "tier" to girls who swipe a lot but don't get many matches. if you are an average male but only match with fatties you might want to have a clear start.

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

you can delete your profile if you were like me and was just swiping everyone (read: fat chicks) while taking a shit. i did that, re-used the same pics and i was matching with hotter girls.

keep bio short i'd say, idk your age/target age but you'd want to think of it like a job interview (i think those two have a lot of similarities). give enough information to lead them to ask for details. you have a picture of you with a helmet, let her ask what do you do with it. cats are fine, cat girls can be weird but so can horse girls idk that's your call. also i'd say remove the part of not knowing many people, having social command is important at least in my experience. many times even if we're just walking to class i'll say hi to a few people i know and eventually get "wow you know so many people"

about deleting profile: tinder (apparently) has a weird algorithm. if you swipe on everyone but don't get many matches, it'll lower your "tier" to girls who swipe a lot but don't get many matches. if you are an average male but only match with fatties you might want to have a clear start.

Good stuff. Makes sense.

I think recreating the profiles help with putting your profile back to people that had originally swiped you left. They may see it again, but now a different photo and profile

[Turkish Pickle]

dude yeah definitely, people change and more importantly people forget.
if you post a pic of you with a helmet you're at better odds than so many people out there, i'd honestly love to talk to you about it. me and a close friend are planning to go to germany over the winter break so we can get good beer (fuck natty light) and so that i can drive a lap or two on the green hell.

many chicks, especially when drunk, just judge you on your first picture and swipe left/right. if you are "rightable", she'll look into your other pics and your bio. i'd say post a picture of your face and/or body in the first one (no sunglasses) and put the helmet pic as the second. if you, once again, an average guy who she's on the fence with, seeing that second pic will convey a sense of you do what you want to, along with a bit of danger. fuck if i know why but girls dig that stuff...

ESPECIALLY with different photos and profiles, you're bound to be given multiple new chances by the same women that lefted you before. there are many people with the same name especially if your name is something highly common like john, alex, chris etc

[Lups]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

We actually need more players to share their dating stories, the good and the bad.

And some girls can also share, because they bring a different perspective.

Who do we have still? Lups and Tara? bimmette

OMG no.

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

dude yeah definitely, people change and more importantly people forget.
if you post a pic of you with a helmet you're at better odds than so many people out there, i'd honestly love to talk to you about it. me and a close friend are planning to go to germany over the winter break so we can get good beer (fuck natty light) and so that i can drive a lap or two on the green hell.

many chicks, especially when drunk, just judge you on your first picture and swipe left/right. if you are "rightable", she'll look into your other pics and your bio. i'd say post a picture of your face and/or body in the first one (no sunglasses) and put the helmet pic as the second. if you, once again, an average guy who she's on the fence with, seeing that second pic will convey a sense of you do what you want to, along with a bit of danger. fuck if i know why but girls dig that stuff...

ESPECIALLY with different photos and profiles, you're bound to be given multiple new chances by the same women that lefted you before. there are many people with the same name especially if your name is something highly common like john, alex, chris etc

Nice, I'll do that. It makes much sense.

Dude, you're not going to drive in Nurburgring during winter... they close the road and even if they didn't, the snow wouldn't let you do much.

[Kyngofpop]

Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Thanks I'll give that a shot.
Open to suggestions on what to say by anyone as well. Feel free

I'm taking all this in too because I rarely use dating apps and have the absolute worst luck on them when I do use them.

I have much better luck face to face, especially since I'm into non-Americans and foreigners. Met some kat at wrk two weeks ago with the wife and kids in the car and I instantly saw that he was attracted to me so I used it to my advantage giving the signs that I was "down" and speaking to him in his language. Couple days later he's at my house beating up the cooch and keeps calling back and texting asking for more, in fact just got a text while typing this. Do I feel bad for having someone that's married with children? Possibly but most likely not. When I'm done with him I can send him home to her and not be bothered with any of it...and only hit him up when I need to be broke off. Not the best sex but some is always better than none.

Point is this type of interaction would NVR happen on a dating app so that's why I'm reluctant to use them and need to be convinced that hookups happen but even more so that actual love connections happen.

I'm watching this thread and taking notes lol

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Originally Posted by Kyngofpop

I'm taking all this in too because I rarely use dating apps and have the absolute worst luck on them when I do use them.

I have much better luck face to face, especially since I'm into non-Americans and foreigners. Met some kat at wrk two weeks ago with the wife and kids in the car and I instantly saw that he was attracted to me so I used it to my advantage giving the signs that I was "down" and speaking to him in his language. Couple days later he's at my house beating up the cooch and keeps calling back and texting asking for more, in fact just got a text while typing this. Do I feel bad for having someone that's married with children? Possibly but most likely not. When I'm done with him I can send him home to her and not be bothered with any of it...and only hit him up when I need to be broke off. Not the best sex but some is always better than none.

Point is this type of interaction would NVR happen on a dating app so that's why I'm reluctant to use them and need to be convinced that hookups happen but even more so that actual love connections happen.

I'm watching this thread and taking notes lol

Beating up the cooch hahahahaha

See I'm like you, I'd prefer to just have face-to-face interactions. I actually frowned upon people on dating apps...

But they're a huge ice breaker. You get to chatting more easily. Most people close themselves up for REAL life but open up on an app...
I mean, try chatting with somebody in traffic or at a small line at the mall... they'll think you're a freak, so they look at their phones to chat with a random person that has a fake profile and picture...

[Never_Enough]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

dude yeah definitely, people change and more importantly people forget.
if you post a pic of you with a helmet you're at better odds than so many people out there, i'd honestly love to talk to you about it. me and a close friend are planning to go to germany over the winter break so we can get good beer (fuck natty light) and so that i can drive a lap or two on the green hell.

many chicks, especially when drunk, just judge you on your first picture and swipe left/right. if you are "rightable", she'll look into your other pics and your bio. i'd say post a picture of your face and/or body in the first one (no sunglasses) and put the helmet pic as the second. if you, once again, an average guy who she's on the fence with, seeing that second pic will convey a sense of you do what you want to, along with a bit of danger. fuck if i know why but girls dig that stuff...

ESPECIALLY with different photos and profiles, you're bound to be given multiple new chances by the same women that lefted you before. there are many people with the same name especially if your name is something highly common like john, alex, chris etc

I can attest to this. I have messaged plenty of women that never reply. Message them again a week, month, whatever later & boom we are now in a conversation & many times I also get her number.

Sadly, it's a numbers game for men. We're doing all the work. It's really bs.