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      02-20-2019, 11:11 AM   #3433
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That's an immature and selfish response. Don't do this.


Agreed. A first date is usually hard to 100% gauge a person's personality at least in my experience. First dates are good for getting a general idea about attraction, and if the person is mentally insane or not.

The second and third date is usually where the personality comes out.

Honestly, if you were attracted to her otherwise, seems like a silly thing to cut someone off for. A lot of people complain about their jobs as a conversation that others can relate to. If the entire date consisted of that and nothing else, maybe she was nervous or really is just that boring.
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Sounds like you need to head over to the Viagra experience thread.
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      02-20-2019, 02:06 PM   #3435
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That's an immature and selfish response. Don't do this.
We went on two dates. Iím not obligated to her in any way.

Do you take someone on a second date so that you can Ďbreak upí with them if you didnít like the first date? What a fuckin joke.
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      02-20-2019, 02:28 PM   #3437
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meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?
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      02-20-2019, 03:17 PM   #3439
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meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?
Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.
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meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?
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Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.
Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?
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Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.
that is the logical but also not-fun alternative it's what i had in mind

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Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?
uh, sure? why would i need to do this?
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      02-20-2019, 03:30 PM   #3442
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meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?
Explain that you don't really see this going anywhere. Leave an uncomfortable silence for no longer than 60 seconds. Then break your own uncomfortable silence with "I must say I will miss the sex" gauge her reaction. Based on her reaction, body language and facial expression, you're next response needs to be: (if she isn't down) I sincerely wish you the best followed by a hug or (if she seems remotely interested) something to the affect of "how about it then", "wanna get out of here and go back to my place for a quick one" or "perhaps we should have one last go."
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Explain that you don't really see this going anywhere. Leave an uncomfortable silence for no longer than 60 seconds. Then break your own uncomfortable silence with "I must say I will miss the sex" gauge her reaction. Based on her reaction, body language and facial expression, you're next response needs to be: (if she isn't down) I sincerely wish you the best followed by a hug or (if she seems remotely interested) something to the affect of "how about it then", "wanna get out of here and go back to my place for a quick one" or "perhaps we should have one last go."
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Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?
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uh, sure? why would i need to do this?
Oh, just because you were going to ghost her, and so it is penance for your attempted sin. Plus, it would be hilarious to see a guy in a Casper ghost costume telling you he didn't want to ghost you, so he's telling you in person.

At least it is funny in my mind.
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Oh, just because you were going to ghost her, and so it is penance for your attempted sin. Plus, it would be hilarious to see a guy in a Casper ghost costume telling you he didn't want to ghost you, so he's telling you in person.

At least it is funny in my mind.
I laughed. Being John Malkovitch?
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I laughed. Being John Malkovitch?
Had to look him up. Still not sure I understand. So probably not?
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meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?
Just been reading this thread for a few hours, loving it still new to this forum though I have been lurking in the background for several weeks...
My advice here would be call her and tell her you don't wanna keep it up as its heading no where. She probably wont be amused that she took 2-3 hours getting ready for the date then you go there and tell her you're no longer interested. Save her the time and effort of getting all dolled up for rejection
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Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?
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that is the logical but also not-fun alternative it's what i had in mind


uh, sure? why would i need to do this?
Do this. It would be SOLID GOLD. Get her to meet you at a coffee shop and walk by her, revealing yourself, without breaking stride, then walk out the door.

She Just Got Ghosted.

Do it. Do it. Do it.
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Went out with some girl last weekend but didn't really feel inspired. She's well educated and well spoken BUT [as shallow as this sounds] I feel I could do better in the looks department. She's cute but I expect more.

Gotta let her down gently now, don't wanna be an even bigger douche by ghosting. Will prob be meeting with someone else this weekend.
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Went out with some girl last weekend but didn't really feel inspired. She's well educated and well spoken BUT [as shallow as this sounds] I feel I could do better in the looks department. She's cute but I expect more.

Gotta let her down gently now, don't wanna be an even bigger douche by ghosting. Will prob be meeting with someone else this weekend.
I feel like we need pictures now....just to be sure of providing sound advice.
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I feel like we need pictures now....just to be sure of providing sound advice.
Sometimes it worries me that we think so much alike...
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