Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

Joekerr · 02-02-2021, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

My jaw dropped. All that money and he doesn't think I've improved

Teasing. Not really, but moving on!

YOU ARE NOT UGLY. You have so much potential and you have the means to do something. Ever heard the phrase, "You're not ugly, you're just broke." Well that clearly doesn't apply to you. Let's get it done. You've got to take the first step. Personally, I'd start with a shave (if you haven't already) and a fresh cut and dye job. Or keep the color you have, your choice, but let's get it styled. That's going to boost your confidence right there.

Are you on any dating sites? If so, what photos are you using? Can we see them? I'd love to help and give insight on what women want to see in a man's profile.

What type of woman are you targeting? Describe your perfect (realistically perfect) woman.

While I am not sure Sara is going to find what she's really looking for with the body mods, I do applaud her for taking a step to achieve it - dinonz this is a good opportunity for you to use her as an additional sounding board and I think you should consider making use of it. Can't really hurt!

Nice offer Sara.

Sara · 02-02-2021, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

For a few minutes...
The nose is still a bit crooked buy nothing like before.

Without sunglasses...

MKSixer · 02-02-2021, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Without sunglasses...

See above.

Dang3r · 02-02-2021, 11:14 AM

*shrug* Im so fuqed out

Sara · 02-02-2021, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

See above.

You dress nice.

Sara · 02-02-2021, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Dang3r

*shrug* Im so fuqed out

Why?

MKSixer · 02-02-2021, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

You dress nice.

Thank you!!
Zegna dinner jacket at a formal evening wedding. Girl in photo gone.

Dang3r · 02-02-2021, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Why?

I would explain later, just finished reading 4 missed days here. A lot of stuff to think over it.

fiveohwblow · 02-02-2021, 11:19 AM

Seems to be a fairly consistent sentiment in here that dressing nice, a fresh shave and trip the barber are essential. As someone with facial hair I need to clarify, are we in here..

A group of folks who prefer the bald face
or
Utilizing a "shave" as a replacement for well groomed?

MKSixer · 02-02-2021, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

Seems to be a fairly consistent sentiment in here that dressing nice, a fresh shave and trip the barber are essential. As someone with facial hair I need to clarify, are we in here..

A group of folks who prefer the bald face
or
Utilizing a "shave" as a replacement for well groomed?

Ladies typically don't like brush or hair on their soft facial skin or more, um...tender bits.

I'll show myself out now.

Sara · 02-02-2021, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

Seems to be a fairly consistent sentiment in here that dressing nice, a fresh shave and trip the barber are essential. As someone with facial hair I need to clarify, are we in here..

A group of folks who prefer the bald face
or
Utilizing a "shave" as a replacement for well groomed?

Prefer a bald face, though a 5 o'clock shadow occasionally is hot too.

fiveohwblow · 02-02-2021, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

Ladies typically don't like brush or hair on their soft facial skin or more, um...tender bits.

I'll show myself out now.

I have had some opposite experience... but just one. It is crazy as there is a whole beard loving culture out there...

Specifically referring to the tender bits. Stick around, dont leave just yet

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Prefer a bald face, though a 5 o'clock shadow occasionally is hot too.

I figured as much. I believe I look much better with a 5 o'clock shadow or SLIGHT longer (well groomed) in a similar vein as you, accenting and working with what I was or wasn't given. Baby face I am much less attractive and have confirmed this with the right sex, female of course

MKSixer · 02-02-2021, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Prefer a bald face, though a 5 o'clock shadow occasionally is hot too.

I have a heavy beard. My 5 PM shadow comes at 12 noon.

Sara · 02-02-2021, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

I have had some opposite experience... but just one. It is crazy as there is a whole beard loving culture out there...

Specifically referring to the tender bits. Stick around, dont leave just yet

I figured as much. I believe I look much better with a 5 o'clock shadow or SLIGHT longer (well groomed) in a similar vein as you, accenting and working with what I was or wasn't given. Baby face I am much less attractive and have confirmed this with the right sex, female of course

Really? Would you show me a photo of you with and without? I find guys so much more attractive clean shaven.

Dang3r · 02-02-2021, 11:34 AM

Since my hair into the face at moustache and beard section are turning to white I never wore a beard again. Had pliered first all white hairs off the in-between black ones but gave up at some certain point - which was reached as the picked holes made it looks like a hord of mice ran through it

MKSixer · 02-02-2021, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

I'm snowed-in and I'm spending more time on my tushy this morning in front of the computer. I'm bored...

So gentlemen, speaking of hirsute matters, Brazilian or Italian?

Brazilian!!

Dang3r · 02-02-2021, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

I'm snowed-in and I'm spending more time on my tushy this morning in front of the computer. I'm bored...

So gentlemen, speaking of hirsute matters, Brazilian or Italian?

Neither nor, a clean shave or well groomed hair is appreciated enough for me, easy to please, I know.

fiveohwblow · 02-02-2021, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Really? Would you show me a photo of you with and without? I find guys so much more attractive clean shaven.

Oh shoot, I shy from photos as I dont find them particularly flattering... let me see if I can find any, especially facial hair free....

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

I'm snowed-in and I'm spending more time on my tushy this morning in front of the computer. I'm bored...

So gentlemen, speaking of hirsute matters, Brazilian or Italian?

I am with MKSixer on this one, Brazilian all the way.

CTinline-six · 02-02-2021, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

It's usually the opposite with me. The guy shows up and looking sooo much better than his photos.

That's what happens to the people who go on dates with me. I'm laughably bad at taking pictures of myself. It's just not something I do often, and I should really have professional pictures taken.

Dang3r · 02-02-2021, 11:48 AM

You know what, the beauty is always into the eye of the beholder.
Based from pictures I would never met some of my older couples, I find it sometimes soo superficial to judge someone just by swiping him away.
Where are the good times when you walk into a bar, see some very attractive human and just start a chat?
Am I too ancient?

CTinline-six · 02-02-2021, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by fiveohwblow

Baby face I am much less attractive and have confirmed this with the right sex, female of course

I have this issue, I look really young (like 16 years old) when clean shaven. I normally have a bit of stubble. My dad looks 40 at 55 years old, so I guess it's a good problem to have later in life.

JP10 · 02-02-2021, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Dang3r

You know what, the beauty is always into the eye of the beholder.
Based from pictures I would never met some of my older couples, I find it sometimes soo superficial to judge someone just by swiping him away.
Where are the good times when you walk into a bar, see some very attractive human and just start a chat?
Am I too ancient?

Na, I'm younger then bulk majority on here and I think this way as well. Social media blows.

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