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Just had to break it off w/ a lady I was with for 5 months. Lot of crying from her, I feel terrible. Anybody ever sort of love someone but knew you couldn't be together long-term?
Main thing for me was age. She's almost 34 and I'm a few years younger. And she has had ongoing financial/emotional issues from her first marriage. Overall these things were more than I wanted to take on.
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I've been more or less following this thread for months. Here's my bad dating experience:
It's bad because it's the date I never had, but really desired. I was in Junior High School and "in love" with the most beautiful girl in the world. She was very popular (but not stuck up, as they said in the day) - just a gem of a lady. I was so friggin' shy at the time, I didn't have the nerve to ask her out. I'm sorry I didn't.
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Due to her age I feel so guilty for wasting her time. I pray she finds love and happiness. I'd like to remain friends but know that often hurts one person.
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Emotional and financial issues can be difficult to take on. I've been there on both sides of that fence. I'm honestly on that fence right now because my gf can't seem to figure her finances out. It's not enough for me to get out (yet), but it's enough that I'm not making any future financial plans with her as a contributor. Shy Soldier update: Saturday we were getting ready for a trip into town and the girl he has been hanging out with unexpectedly showed up with some others where we were waiting for our ride. He saw her, she waved at us and he immediately turned his back and ignored her like she wasn't there because he was so nervous. He has been talking to her everyday and hangs out with her from time to time also, so it's not like they don't know each other. I later asked him wtf that was about and he said he just locked up and got super nervous. I swear watching him is like I'm back in 7th grade. He had been doing so good with pushing through his fears and talking to her and asking her to out to things, and then this
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However, it never surprises me how devious women can be. I was out on the town Saturday night with a mate and we spent most of the evening in a bar that had a live band playing, which were absolutely great. While we were there two birds caught our eye. Now, my mate is happily married so he was always going to be a good boy and for him they were merely eye candy. Anyway, after a while we all ended up in the same area and they started flirting and singing and dancing with us which was all good fun. Now at no point during the evening had we seen any husbands or boyfriends in tow (no rings on fingers either), so I thought they were genuinely flirting and having a good time with us. However, my mate clocked two blokes stood a bit behind us and he seemed to think they were somehow involved with these two women. And sure enough, after he realised this and then the two women realised we knew something was up, these two guys moved in and were clearly the boyfriends of these two women. Now it seems to me that these two women and possibly there boyfriends were clearly out to cause trouble, as why would you spend the entire evening making out you were single and dancing and flirting with another bloke while in full view of your boyfriends? As soon as the boyfriends came over to them, I think they were all hoping it was going to kick off, but unfortunately for them we were better than that and merely ignored them and just carried on with our evening. Very odd! |
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if my wife/gf is going to flirt with another man she's done. that's genuinely disrespectful, and on top of that you put your man in a position where he can be seriously hurt (who tf knows what a drunk guy is going to do/what he's packing)? fuck that noise, i hope your friend can find someone stable to build his life with. |
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Not that *I'm* into that, but yall seem to be missing the swinger life described above.
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Not missing it. Avoided it. I've touched on swinging in here. Everyone I know that's into the lifestyle seems to be really happy about it.
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