[JP10]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Well, gents (and lady or two) after 4 years, the girlfriend is gone. Devastated is about the only word I can come up with. Sucks.

Well shit man, came out of nowhere. Was just discussing her yesterday on the gym thread. Sorry to hear, stay strong.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

THIS
FUCKING
YEAR
SUCKS!

I'm sorry.

Originally Posted by Joekerr

PM'd. Very sorry to hear that though.

Originally Posted by JP10

Well shit man, came out of nowhere. Was just discussing her yesterday on the gym thread. Sorry to hear, stay strong.

Thank you

[wcr3d]

Her loss

[wcr3d]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

THIS
FUCKING
YEAR
SUCKS!

I'm sorry.

You’re right it does.
Can’t even imagine what has happened now but I do hope it gets better soon!

[Joekerr]

Ok, let's see if there is any good news out there...calling dinonz - it was either your bday, or her bday, or something was happening in two weeks and its been at least that amount of time. And I think there was a bed to be shared.

So what happened?

[IllSic_Design]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Well, gents (and lady or two) after 4 years, the girlfriend is gone. Devastated is about the only word I can come up with. Sucks.

WOW man! Sorry to hear, seemed like you guys were going good last I heard you mention her in a thread. Keep your head up!

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Well, gents (and lady or two) after 4 years, the girlfriend is gone. Devastated is about the only word I can come up with. Sucks.

Damn man. Sorry to hear. Come to Texas and we'll sample scotch until it doesn't hurt any more!

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Ok, let's see if there is any good news out there...calling dinonz - it was either your bday, or her bday, or something was happening in two weeks and its been at least that amount of time. And I think there was a bed to be shared.

So what happened?

It mostly went to plan, so nothing happened.

We had our couples massage that afternoon, which was less awkward than I expected, and then had a nice dinner out, went to the hotel, wandered around a bit (it's an old historic hotel and we had a floor to ourselves), then we went to the room and chatted a lot. She went for a bath in the big tub with her bath bombs, came out and chatted more but over the night developed a migraine - I think old hotel = musty and mould, and that triggered her. So after chatting all night, we left about 4:30am to head home without even touching the bed.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by IllSic_Design

WOW man! Sorry to hear, seemed like you guys were going good last I heard you mention her in a thread. Keep your head up!

Everything was great a week and a half ago. It went to shit fast after I helped her paint her house. I don't do well with "victim" types. I'll paint the picture: As good of a woman and as kind of a heart as she has, she is also the type to
A.) STALK ME ON A FUCKING FORUM! (yeah, still not believing that one)
B.) Withhold information that is pertinent to the good of a relationship
C.) If something I did upset her, she would just hang on to it for months but act as if everything is fine, but you can tell it isn't. Then when you ask, according to her everything is great. Kinda like being in trouble as a kid where you parent knows something you've done and you're about to get punished, but they haven't dropped the bomb that they know yet. It's like that.....all the time.

All of these things I can do without. She doesn't own the only vagina.

Originally Posted by dinonz

Damn man. Sorry to hear. Come to Texas and we'll sample scotch until it doesn't hurt any more!

Dino! When I make it to TX, I am definitely hitting you and Big Marcus up.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by dinonz

It mostly went to plan, so nothing happened.

We had our couples massage that afternoon, which was less awkward than I expected, and then had a nice dinner out, went to the hotel, wandered around a bit (it's an old historic hotel and we had a floor to ourselves), then we went to the room and chatted a lot. She went for a bath in the big tub with her bath bombs, came out and chatted more but over the night developed a migraine - I think old hotel = musty and mould, and that triggered her. So after chatting all night, we left about 4:30am to head home without even touching the bed.

Expectations met then. Mine anyways.

Do you think maybe you should have tried to join her in the "big" tub...and because you didn't, it wasn't the hotel that gave her a migraine?

I don't know - you need to either go for broke or break it off, feel like you are just constantly in flux right now. And I think she is giving you opportunity, you just don't think of yourself as worthy, because you describe yourself as fat and ugly, which may or may not be true, have no idea. But obviously she sees something in you, so maybe you need to let go of your own ideas about your image and embrace hers.

And you can work on losing weight if it means that much to you...fairly simple math with respect to caloric intake and burn. You might be surprised how easily the first few pounds come off.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Expectations met then. Mine anyways.

Do you think maybe you should have tried to join her in the "big" tub...and because you didn't, it wasn't the hotel that gave her a migraine?

I don't know - you need to either go for broke or break it off, feel like you are just constantly in flux right now. And I think she is giving you opportunity, you just don't think of yourself as worthy, because you describe yourself as fat and ugly, which may or may not be true, have no idea. But obviously she sees something in you, so maybe you need to let go of your own ideas about your image and embrace hers.

And you can work on losing weight if it means that much to you...fairly simple math with respect to caloric intake and burn. You might be surprised how easily the first few pounds come off.

No - I could tell that joining her in the tub wasn't happening.

I'm working out how to dial it back but it's not as easy as it sounds. She's at my house almost every night, she's coming to see the new car this afternoon, and I said I would help her sort a few big items in her apartment tonight. We're good friends, but friends is all we are.

As for the fat and ugly - am starting on that next week. Will be engaging a nutritionist and personal trainer, as I have to fit into an F4 (Formula 4, not a Phantom aircraft) cockpit in December for a Skip Barber race school. But that's for me not her.

[Turkish Pickle]

Tell her to be your cheerleader for Formula 4 and let us know how that goes!

I'm with Joekerr on this one - my first thought was that she got a migraine as an excuse to leave after she realized no moves were going to be made. A girl I was seeing last year was like that; she said she gets migraines daily the first few nights until we started hooking up...

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Tell her to be your cheerleader for Formula 4 and let us know how that goes!

I'm with Joekerr on this one - my first thought was that she got a migraine as an excuse to leave after she realized no moves were going to be made. A girl I was seeing last year was like that; she said she gets migraines daily the first few nights until we started hooking up...

No - she gets them quite often, and even I could smell the musty mouldy air. I went out and got her some medication but it didn't help much.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by dinonz

No - I could tell that joining her in the tub wasn't happening.

What made you so sure? I would have said bath bombs was actually a signal to join.

Originally Posted by dinonz

I'm working out how to dial it back but it's not as easy as it sounds. She's at my house almost every night, she's coming to see the new car this afternoon, and I said I would help her sort a few big items in her apartment tonight. We're good friends, but friends is all we are.

As for the fat and ugly - am starting on that next week. Will be engaging a nutritionist and personal trainer, as I have to fit into an F4 (Formula 4, not a Phantom aircraft) cockpit in December for a Skip Barber race school. But that's for me not her.

Good to hear and it should be for you, not her. Wish you all the best there!

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Tell her to be your cheerleader for Formula 4 and let us know how that goes!

He could tell her that she has a VIP box and he wants access after the race...

If King Rudi is reading this, can you imagine the utter agony he is experiencing, struggling not to drop similar comedian type responses like me? My bet is he's going to fail the struggle.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

What made you so sure? I would have said bath bombs was actually a signal to join.



Good to hear and it should be for you, not her. Wish you all the best there!




He could tell her that she has a VIP box and he wants access after the race...

If King Rudi is reading this, can you imagine the utter agony he is experiencing, struggling not to drop similar comedian type responses like me? My bet is he's going to fail the struggle.

Dino, no offense here as I have much respect for you brother. Joe, I can not imagine. Sometimes I'm amazed at what comes out of my mouth in regards to comments made. Big bath and bath bombs....the first thing that comes to my mind is the bath scene from Coming to America. "The royal penis is clean, your highness."

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

What made you so sure? I would have said bath bombs was actually a signal to join.

I ran the bath for her and then once it was ready I think her words were "ok - I'll see you in a bit then" - basically asking me to leave.

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I ran the bath for her and then once it was ready I think her words were "ok - I'll see you in a bit then" - basically asking me to leave.

wtf ditch this broad already

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

wtf ditch this broad already

+1

[Desmond79]

As a guy into his 60's, I don't want to even talk about my last too long relationship or my theory that women get even crazier as they get older. It's either that or I've run into a rash of serious flakiness lately.

I'm now into "I don't care" mode which will soon dissipate and I'll get back into it. But right now, I'd rather golf.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by dinonz

I ran the bath for her and then once it was ready I think her words were "ok - I'll see you in a bit then" - basically asking me to leave.

Why are you wasting your time with this lady? Sounds like she's just friend zoned you from what I'm reading and using you for her benefit.

On to the next... Billions of women out there in the world, forget this one.

[cmyx6go]

I recently saw a few call outs looking for MK but don't remember the thread so I'll put it here. Happy to report he's fine, just busy. He said he might check in later.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I recently saw a few call outs looking for MK but don't remember the thread so I'll put it here. Happy to report he's fine, just busy. He said he might check in later.

Some fair-weather friend MKSixer is