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Originally Posted by Alfisti

I don't care how good the getting is, no fucking way i put up with that shit. I can't do crazy or drugged or whatever, just zero patience for these people.

As Judy mentioned...

It's not a choice you make. You fall for them. Hard.

When you see it you become kind of "crazy" yourself, doing things or thinking things you never did before.

One can't just say "I choose not to love her anymore so I'll just walk away". It's not a switch.