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Originally Posted by Not_Judy
make sense at all?
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Makes absolutely perfect sense. I don't see any indication this is your rash decision, I've seen it plaguing you for a while here. None of us have to live with/out her (OK, vicariously, sure) and only you can make that ultimate decision.
It's extremely cliché, but maybe you need a bit of time apart. When I had been dating my second wife for about a year, kids and a jealous dickhead of an ex who used me to put a wedge between her and the kids, I needed time apart. I came to the realization, without her there, that I WANTED her there, warts and all.
When I contacted her after the apart time, she took me back because "You left, I didn't" No guarantees in life, so just be sure that all the cons don't outweigh the pros before you cut the cord.