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Originally Posted by Not_Judy
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Originally Posted by OnerDriver
As Judy mentioned...
It's not a choice you make. You fall for them. Hard.
When you see it you become kind of "crazy" yourself, doing things or thinking things you never did before.
One can't just say "I choose not to love her anymore so I'll just walk away". It's not a switch.
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Exactly. It actually never changes. You'll always miss the good parts of that person but at some point you have to challenge yourself to break the cycle. It's like dealing with a death of a loved one but worse. Death takes them from you forever. It's worse when you know they are still around and you can't be with the person you love; either by your choice or theirs. It does make it easier once you break the cycle and then see them do the same things to their current victim. That's when reality hits and realize how stupid you were and grow from the experience.
Emotions are for suckas. |
Very well said. Like death but worse.
I mentioned to a friend it was like no finding the body of a relative you think died. Lack of closure that eats you away. When you are able to see it clearly it makes it easier. But you still think "what if".