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      11-13-2018, 09:50 AM   #1874
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She has feelings for you... she's "confused"...

Like the BPD in my story earlier in the thread. Perhaps she'll find herself, perhaps not. You won't help her find herself.
She's not confused, she's an asshole
I call assholes people that do things knowing they're wrong.

When people can't help themselves or don't know better, they need help, but "we" can't help them, and a person has to seek help first.

Point in case is her reaching out to our friend, she realizes he's hurt and she cares.

Doesn't mean she'll try to be with him and that doesn't mean she's an asshole. But he can't help her.

That's why I asked him to promise he wouldn't try to go after her. We're inclined to seek these people, it's crazy...
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