It's one thing to have disagreements, it's another to have outright fights over stupid shit. I do not miss it one bit, and one reason why I'm hesitant to let anyone in aside from a friend with "benefits". Don't have the mental capacity to deal with the pettiness, so until someone rolls around that feels the same way, this is how it will be. Not all women are that combative, one girl I was seeing recently was zero issue in that regard, but had other things that I couldn't see fitting long term.
Such is life. People are people and everyone is different. But the whole walking on eggshells thing is dumb and sticking around to do such for the benefit of other "x" and "x" qualities doesn't always work out. Thus why my last LTR stopped. Everything else was phenomenal except the piss poor communication, which in end was destroying me mentally (and probably her too).
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