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Originally Posted by OnerDriver
As Judy mentioned...
It's not a choice you make. You fall for them. Hard.
When you see it you become kind of "crazy" yourself, doing things or thinking things you never did before.
One can't just say "I choose not to love her anymore so I'll just walk away". It's not a switch.
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Sure it is. We all choose to be in the relationships we are in. Yes, it is sometimes difficult to cut the cord or walk away, but ultimately folks make a decision to stay with or leave that person.
Like pretty much everything in life, we have a choice. We've all made the wrong choice on many things in our lives so don't take this as me acting like I'm perfect. I just know that it is, ultimately, a choice no matter how one wants to spin it.
If it's not a choice you're telling me that I broke up with women or they broke up with me b/c of what then? After all, we don't choose to stay with people.