Quote:
Originally Posted by Alfisti
Quote:
Originally Posted by e90335e36m3
Nevertheless, my wife refuses to allow me to leave (including physically holding me, flying to where I am, sending me thousands of texts a day with different numbers), despite my many failures in the relationship, and my refusal to adopt her religion, give her children and so on. Divorce is wrong to her on a religious basis. On her part, her significant failures have not been enough for me to leave. Time is running out, either I file the remaining paperwork or the court tosses my action.
She still loves me and is in love with me. I love her more as a friend. We both deserve better.
|
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh-Kayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.
Well that makes our comments a little easier. You are WELL past a therapist, you need a court order I am afraid. The fact there's no kids means you can cut ties here without regret.
It's done mate, wrap it up. |
See my issue is leaving without feeling guilt, abandonment, so on. So the few times I was able to leave, she kept texting calling, in a non adversarial fashion, I love you and I need you and so on. Each time I felt guilty and came back.
I need to resolve my own issues.
Restraining order is out of the question unfortunately in this circumstance. Her actions are non adversarial, just manipulative and I cannot bring myself to take a step of this magnitude towards a person I love or that I am not adversarial with. Just not made that way.