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Prior to marriage, my wife and I discussed (at length, not just a one off):
1.) Finances, including control and process
2.) Lifestyle (travel v. stuff v. investment)
3.) Whether we would have kids, including how to raise them (we are different religions and different races)
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a few other things I'm forgetting, but those are the most important.
Make sure these 3 are compatible and you just cut your divorce risk in half.
I also very much echo something someone posted that if you are having tons of fights and issues in the first 2 years (the honeymoon period), just GTFO. It will only get harder.
Been married 9 years.
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