Good luck.... you're gonna need it.
In all seriousness, it's a topic most of us have dealt with in the past. Most of us were smart enough to not poke the hive.
I'm assuming your relationship is solid and there are no underlying issues. Assuming that, you need to find something to motivate her. Praising her when she exercises or eats healthy isn't the way to motivate her.
Do you have something (exercise - outdoor activity) that you would like to start doing? If so, talk with her and tell her you'd like some help getting into the activity and see if she has any interest in doing it with you. If she's not interested, buy a bigger couch and bigger TV and tell her to move over and join her watching TV.
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