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@OP, to be honest, sounds like your wife is getting bored with you. She changed as a person and you're still the same loving guy she married. All that hiding (emails, phone calls, etc) just means she doesn't want to hurt you out of guilt. Same as she doesn't have the heart to tell you that you're not enough anymore and she needs something fresh. She probably still cares a lot about you as a person, but the husband part, im not so sure..
what are the chances that your wife is posting on some forum (or elsewhere) seeking advice to try to save the marriage? i'd say slim to none. Fact is, her energy was spend elsewhere after your move, not on a hobby, but in a "non-sexual" relationship with another man. She was playing with fire and she knows it. But what does she do? She hides stuff from you, and only apologized after she was found out.. What if you never found out? How far would she have gone? Also, what has she done since the incident to patch up the relationship?
You sound like a great guy, young and financially stable. You deserve better, seriously. Get out now before dragging a kid into this mess..
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